be:-Incredible India monthly contest of March by @sampabiswas|All about motherhood

Hi @sampabiswas. Thankyou for creating something like this. I love motherhood, their practices and their uniqueness. I wouldn't have gotten this far if not for my mother dressing me well. Thank God that motherhood are advancing everyday in their caring mechanism.

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In my own opinion, Motherhood is a community of mother's with similar or dissimilar believe system, trust and modeling. Infact, in a short sentence, they are the heirs of professional child upbringing. The aim of this compounding is to build a sophisticated model of children with perpetual resemblance.

For a girl after marriage, motherhood introduces her into real-world exhibition of mother-like attitude. This is the reason why this quote is often customized. “A boy (man) shall leave his parents house and shall cleave to his girl (woman)”. You can see differences in the bracket, after marriage, the simplicity of this nature is embedded and the real nature is then exhibited—nature of fatherhood and motherhood.

Before you leave your parents house to become a father or a mother, it's assumed, you've underscored certain modeling, norms and cultures of motherhood. That's why you're sometimes referred as materials.

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For me, I would give it 50%. Not every girl desires to become a mother. Talkless of embracing the mother's culture. This culture is a very difficult task to implement. And so, girls will always want to enjoy their youthful nature before delving into the system.

Yes, sometimes due to social pressure, they are compelled to choose motherhood. This generation are more equipped than 20th century babes. Semper paratus. Meaning: Always ready. The inability to find a man to get along with in him has actually taught girls big lesson, and so when they've one that engross their way, they embrace it tightly without a flashback.

Yes. Very relevants. This is what makes the husband look real and trusted—impactful quality. Any husband that fails to play this role is not a husband, he's just a blink in the scope of love.

For husband: Demonstrate the following characteristics

• Care for your wife physically and mentally. Know when she is intense in her feelings and then respond to it by your caring.

• Attend to her wants physically and mentally. Providing money for her necessities may not be super. Build her mental health by giving her attention. Your presence and supports help in boosting her mental health.

• Sexually understand when she is ready. Know her period. Know her seasons. Know when her spirits is activated for the game. Give it to her as it is hot. Make her feel you're a good keeper.

• Let your Honesty speaks. Let your Yes be Yes. Don't be cornered by nasty expressions of other men.

For wife's: Demonstrate the following.

• Be submissive. Although not every men deserve this aspect of life. At least, you should know those one that deserve it. Like it's written respect is reciprocal. Submission is one of the thing that keeps your husband's eye on you.

• Create time for your children (applicable if you have children). I'm not saying you should be a home-mama. Like me, inspite of my schedule at work, I will always dedicate time for my children.

Many children today grew up becoming hazards to the society as a result of their parents not caring for them. Their parents are always busy, occupied by office jobs and outdoor activities.

• Have a prayer manners. Not every wives can pray, talkless of copying the nature itself. This will help build the home both physically and mentally.

In conclusion, motherhood is a beautiful community, girls are always proud of what they become the moment they're activated into it.

I invite @alexanderpeace, @naka05 and @ruthjoe to participate in this contest.