CAMPUS DILEMMA; by @solmusix; 50% to CampusConnect

Good day my highly esteemed steemians, trust you're all good, I'll love to drop my first post in the campus connect community, I'm glad to be part of this great community, let's quick delve into what I'm having.

Of different options, ideas and opinions circulating the human mind, the ability to make wise decision of these offsetting options is very important. As student, we are confronted with diverse thoughts on how to handle certain issues, sometimes very easy to us, and sometimes strange or difficult to us
Sometimes as students we find it hard to read, and even when we do, concentration becomes as a wave. At some point we are focused, and next we're occupied with something else.
Lack of preparation often time causes dilemma

Ways in dealing with Dilemma

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Being in a state of diemma is that which one cannot do away with, but we can make it less densed, quite both not totally avoidable.Below are some ways.

Define your time: Time is a proficient tool in overcoming dilemma. In defining time, it takes different forms, it take forms such as assigning different task to it's stipulated time, engaging in the right things and at the right time. Dilemma creeps in whenever we do not define our activity, and as an impromptu we are now faced with which to be answerable to amongs conflicting and alternative choice. As students, studies are very good, some days classes are stressful, other days may be stress free, our ability to identify this and make proper utilisation of these days are key tool to success. What we experience sometime at school is such that a lecturer may decide to fix his test on a certain date, say the next day, and at same time two other lecturers thinks it's convenient to have theirs on same day, as students, you are not with choice but to write these three (3) tests, how do intend to study for these improtu test, it's now a scenerio where one must make decision, thus if a student has defined his/her time in having proper study aforetime, it becomes easy for this study as he/she may just revise and will be equipped. Hence, set and map out your time, not necessarily conducive for you but out of necessity

Avoid Procrastination: Proscrationation is an intentional act of postponement. It's one grave tool to excellence. Proscrastination, makes one feel relax in the guise that there's time to cover up the lapses, but what's unknown is that Time wasted can never be gotten back.

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So therefore what needs done, be done without much Ado. There's a phenomenon that after a day's lecture, it's very healthy to go through each lesson learnt, it helps get it stuck in the brain and sometimes what may not have been grapsed at the lecture hall becomes very clear rather than being vague.

Accept both the Negative and Positive Thoughts: They are healthy. Let's give an instance here to a young girl growing up, to the African culture, what's believed is that, if a lady walks down the road without attracting side calls or not been approached by the opposite sex (male counterpart) then there's something wrong. Therefore it's a natural tendency in feeling discouraged towards studies, but overcoming such thoughts is what is paramount. Exercises, relaxation, less stress often times are helpful in dealing with these negative thoughts. On the other hand, we are very optimistic, and have positive vibes as per our studies, but sometimes the end result isn't what we aimed for, reason could be that our manner of approach matters, "throwing stones at a fruit is good, but not getting it down, makes all efforts null. Therefore get right the study tips and guides, isn't all about positivity in reading but reading right the things is what count, and applying things as should be.

Keen Attention: It's worthy of note that, a student who attends lectures regularly, and pays attention can devise likely questions to be asked by his/her lecturers. Lecturers often times ask questions in the classroom, and from his/her direction of questions and laying of emphasis/expressional gestures, one can get hints about how to go in his area of study.

In a bid of wrap up, dilemma in some cases cannot be done without, but with preparation against such, it can help turn it's negativity into positivity. As we know change is constant, we therefore seek lasting solution to help against this a-must-situation, hence been afraid of change is not healthy, but working tirelessly in the shortrun for a better view in the longrun is worth fighting for.

Thanks to everyone in this wonderful community, hope this was quite helpful, please feel free to make corrections, and enlighten more, as learning is a daily phenomenon.
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