The Debate (no.21); My heart anytime anyday

Hello ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, my friends in steemit and the administration of this particular contest;
I am so excited to write about this debate and I'll like to start by saying:

Individuals have a way they think, we have our own way of reasoning, and judge! as the popular saying goes "everyone is entitled to have a choice, to make decisions in every situation we face in life so we must learn to respect individual choices."

You know, both instincts are good and may lead to a fulfilling life and good success! But it can also bring confusion, being stucked in between two difficult decision to choose the right one.
Now choosing any of the two ways, depends on the situation one finds his or herself or personal preferences.

You know at times, it is a good thing to follow your heart and trust your intuition. Like for instance, if one is faced with a career making decisions, following one's heart could lead to a more full filling and satisfying path.!

But on the other hand, if we are going to make financial decisions, it may be better to follow our head and make a logical choice and in the end, there isn't no right or wrong answer, either way it's all about what we feel right or wrong for us! Hope you do not get confused though;

And back to the question of the debate, if I'm to follow my heart or head when faced with difficult decisions of mylife? c
Curious to know ~ I would choose my heart!

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I'd better fellow my heart, here are my reasons..

So there is what is called peace of mind!
No matter what I would or may face, no matter how difficult the situation is aside my faith which makes me believe that God would never put his children in a hard situation we may have to go make a mistake! No matter how it is, I'll choose my heart over and over again!
Why? because I want peace!
I want to live life!
I do not want to continue using my head to make everyone feel proud of me, but in the inside am dying.
I just want to be happy!
Yes! most persons may say, the heart is a complicated part of the body, because you choose to love someone who doesn't love you back, or try to please someone because of your emotions!
Yeah others say, emotions makes us week!
but hell no!
My emotions makes me stronger!

We all are humans, no matter how we try hard to act tough and not caring to know how others feel, I bet you there are times, we need someone, we feel lonely, we cry, we regret, we rethink about the choices we've made for ourselves, they path we traded on even though it's just for a second! even though it's just for a little while! a
All of us pass through such days, such times.. a moment of silence, a moment of longing!

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I never knew I'll choose my heart this way, growing up my parents always advice me to use my head! you have to grow up young lady!. My mom would always say this, but closely I've watched how they both make sacrifices that doesn't favour them, sometimes one has to b uncomfortable for the other partner to be comfortable!

Now ladies, remember when we were yet to see and meet who we truly love, we would see how other ladies in love would act weak, and we'll say if I were you I'll do this, I'll walk out? Now you are in a relationship or in your marriage, can you do that now? Can you use your head?
How times flies, we grow cold and change but darling, you are not weak!
Following your heart saves you from drama and at times keeps you in checked!

Finally! As I've said earlier everyone is entitled to have a choice, and make decisions in life, we must learn to respect individual choices. And also said, none of the instinct are wrong, if you choose your head when you find yourself in a complex situation I believe you have your reasons, and also if you choose your heart your right has well, but as for me? I choose my heart and it has always save me in any situation!

Thank you guys for finding this helpful and interesting! cheers.

I invite @goodybest, @zekanem and @alejos7ven to comment on my post and participate in this contest.