The Debate (no.50); The union of men and women can contribute to their own easy living

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Assalamu-alaikum my dear friends. I am Lamia. And I am from Bangladesh. How are you my dear friends? I hope all my dear steemian friends are well and At this time Alhamdulellah I am also fine. Today I am here to participate in a new contest of the Steem Fashion&Style community which is called Debate. Respected @sahmie sir organizes this wonderful contest every week on the same topic that's why this week I am starting my post to participate in this contest today.

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Do men and women face different challenges in their daily lives?

I definitely think that men and women face different challenges in their daily lives. Because I always think that this world is challenging for all people and people have to go through different stages to live well here. Nowadays it is challenging for a man to get a job after completing his education and on the other hand it is also challenging for a girl to find a good life partner in her life.

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Moreover, as a man works day and night to support his family, a woman cannot manage all the household chores single-handedly, which is quite challenging for both of them. Here both men and women struggle to protect themselves and at the same time they look after their families. Where men live looking at family members and women live in the love of men. Here one complements the other as both men and women navigate their lives through challenges along the way of life.

Do men have more freedom in their choices than women?

Looking at the present time, it is seen that men have more freedom in their choices than women. Because a man can lead his own life if he wants and he can do anything you want according to his will. Because he spends most of his day outside, he has more freedom of choice about things.

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On the other hand, women spend most of their time at home and if they like something immediately and want to achieve it quickly, it is not easy to achieve it. On the other hand, a man takes responsibility for managing a family, so men can show more freedom of choice. But in this case I would never call men selfish. Because I have already mentioned that men live by looking at the members of the family that is why a man must give special importance to the likes and dislikes of all the members of the family.

Are there any areas where I think women have an advantage over men?

As far as I know there is one thing where women have an advantage over men and that is running the family. Here it is mostly men who work tirelessly to take care of the family. Moreover, a man earns money for the family through mental and physical exercises that women don't have to think about. What I mean here is that a man is more focused on family management than a woman and a man never cares for his parents, spouse or children as much as a woman does.

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So here men are seen to have more mental tension than women whereas women don't have to do much tension in taking the burden of the family on their shoulders, which is a special advantage for them.

Does family responsibility play an important role in the lives of men and women?

I think women and men are like two wheels of a bicycle where if one wheel breaks the bicycle stops. The contribution of men and women is exactly the same in family or other fields. So I mean that just as men go out and earn money to support his family, women also do the work of running a family. By family management work I mean all the work that a housewife does. Women can also improve a family by standing shoulder to shoulder with men and consulting on various matters.

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Here neither men nor women can be looked down upon because they are dependent on each other. Just as a man after working all day will fail to do cooking and other household chores when he returns home, similarly a woman cannot leave the house and go out to work. Here, what men save for the family, women can advise on using that saved money for the right purpose. In this case I can say that both women and men have special contribution for the development of a family.

Who do I think can have an easier life between men and women?

Single life is never easy that's why I want to say as a girl that I can never lead an easy life alone but in that case I need a civilized life partner. It is possible to lead an easy life in a combination of men and women whereas an easy life cannot be obtained by being alone. In this worldly life, women and men are dependent on each other, so we have to depend on each other to achieve success in any work we do.

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Otherwise, we will not be able to achieve success in our work easily. A union made up of men and women can easily reach the threshold of success which helps in leading an easy life.

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I invite some of my Steemian friends to participate in this contest : @jyoti-thelight, @drhira, @shawlin, @jebanikajeba, @tutul350