I appreciate @ridwant for organizing this contest which I have a lot to write about
Marriage is a process of legalizing a relationship between a man and a woman. A lot of people see marriage as a contract which is a very wrong insight on the term, Marriage can never work as a contract because even contractors at times fail to deliver.
Marriage can only work in love, without love between the partners it won't work, on the contrary, it seems women tend to be more submissive in marriage than ever intended to be, if their husband shows them genuine love but for men, it is not so, they marry the woman they love. So let's move into the issue surrounding broken marriages or people's refusal to marry. I will highlight this issue based on what I have seen and heard.
What Causes Men Or Women To Be Reluctant To Marry?
For men I would say lack of capital, in my country marriage, seems like a business where in some families the bride's parent sees the medium as an opportunity to acquire riches for themselves in both cash and kind, So men find it difficult to marry as the bride price might clock over a million naira, another case happens when a man is very promiscuous, promiscuity is very detrimental having taste for different class of women can stop a man from marrying to continuing the taste.
Every woman would love to have a man lie by her side every night as she rests her head on his chest but in a situation where a woman is not getting married maybe because she might be promiscuous or her character might scare men off, some could be fear of heartbreak as some can't stand to see their husband in affair women, assuming that all men are the same, some see married as a burden or imprisonment where the man is always the one making decisions and activating them. Women who are supporters of feminism with their additional philosophy of total superiority over men may also decide not to marry.
What Is The Importance Of Marriage?
As the statement goes "two heads are better than one", it is not good for a man(or woman) to be alone, The primary purpose of marriage is to establish a concrete relationship between a man and a woman, the relationship can lead to contributive knowledge in decision-making and progress, another is the continuity of the family line that is bearing of children and raising them.
What Are The Risk Of Men And Women, If They Don't Get Married??
The risk of not getting married is enormous, If I say they may be locked up someday I am not joking, many cases of rape/assault have been reported since last year when the urge for sex comes and you can control yourself and you don't even have a wife or husband it may force you to assault.
Dissolution of family line if you don't marry the possibility of continuing a family line is very slim and also it affects our health, especially the part of happiness, having a very close person to communicate our private to.
In conclusion; religious belief can contribute to people's refusal to marry as in the case of REVEREND FATHER OR PRIEST in the catholic religious group. It is advisable to marry to continue your family line. Thank you for reading through the wonderful presentation.
I invite @bossj23 @ngoenyi @basil20 to join in this contest too