Creative Contest! Difficult to Get Married! Why?

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It is with great pleasure that I welcome you all to my blog this wonderful day how are you all doing today I hope all is well, so today I will be participating in an amazing contest organize by @ridwant with the theme "Difficult to Get Married! Why?"

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Before I continue I must confess this is my first time of posting in this community and I sincerely hope that I'm welcome 🤗, so without wasting much time let's proceed.

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WHAT CAUSES MEN OR WOMEN TO BE RELUCTANT TO MARRY?

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There are a lot of things which can cause either a man or a woman to feel reluctant when it comes to choosing a life partner some of which are;

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• Fear
• Previous experience
• A loner

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FEAR

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One of the greatest thing that has caused a lot of people to feel reluctant in getting married is fear, and when we talk of fear it comes in various ways a person may choose not to get married because of the fear of rejection.

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While others on the other hand may choose not to get married because of the fear of getting a heart break 💔 which is he/she may fear that at the end his/her partner may file for a divorce or hurt their feelings one way or the other

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While most people refuses to get married due to the fear of responsibilities you may be confused now but I will explain, you know once a person is married for guy's it is their responsibility to take care of the family by providing for the family while most women feel reluctant due to the responsibilities of the family through domestic chores.

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You may think it's an understatement but trust me I've seen some women who purposely refuses to get married because they don't want to spend so much time in the kitchen cooking.

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PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE

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This also on the other hand is very common and it is seen almost everywhere, a lot of people purposely refuses to get married because of their previous experience in a relationship maybe because their previous relationship didn't go well with them so they purposely try to avoid getting into another relationship

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A LONER

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This one is not that common in our society but trust me it really do exist, most people choose not to get married simply because there are used to being alone so they see marriage as an intrusion into their private life that is why they choose to be alone.

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WHAT IS THE IMPORTANCE OF MARRIAGE FOR COUPLES (MEN AND WOMEN)?

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Believe it or not marriage has so many great importance to both men and women either spiritually or physically that is why I'm the christian teaching it is written that he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and that good thing includes blessings, break through, open doors etc.

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Some of the importance of marriage for couples are;

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• Marriage brings blessings to the married couples
• Once you are married to the right person you tend to have more peace of mind
• Through marriage we tend to have someone who we can share our problems with
• Marriage as a process is a door way for both men and women to have a family of their own

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WHAT ARE THE RISKS FOR MEN AND WOMEN IF THEY DON'T GET MARRIED?

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The risk for men and women who refuses to get married are;

For Men

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• The risk of falling into temptation and following girls up and down
• The risk of being alone
• The risk of not getting any support when the need arises
• The risk of stigmatized by friends or family members for being unable to get married

For Women

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• The risk of falling for anyone that pop's Infront of them
• The risk of being alone
• The risk of not having any support in time of troubles
• The risk of being cheap for men due to desperation
• The risk of being too vulnerable which may lead to being used and dumb by men

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If we really want to look at it there are absolutely so many risk involved in not getting married, so please we all should forget pride and follow our heart cause if you can't stop thinking about him/her that means he is the one for you

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^{So this will be the end of my entry thanks and buy for now
@alee75
@ridwant
@abuarkan}

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Best regards @radleking

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