💫 Invisible loyalties make a person stay within his or her family system, repeating the same story, generation after generation.
There exists in every human being "the good conscience", which is what makes each member of the family earn merits to belong to the family, perpetuating the role that has been occupied in the family (abandonment, loneliness, divorce, falling out of love, etc). This is done by a person following "blind love", who in his or her childish innocence believes that to be a good family member requires following the same destiny as his or her ancestors. Most people are anchored in this kind of love.
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On the other hand, there is the "bad conscience", which is the one that makes a person transcend the limits of their family conscience, daring to do it differently than others and which is the product of a deep process of "individualisation", and which sometimes requires a path of solitude, but of communion with a greater conscience that is the product of "enlightened love".
Here are small steps that can be taken to connect with that enlightened love that helps us to recognise our own wings and take flight in our Being.
Stop being against your family system: when you criticise or make judgements of your family you are condemning yourself to repeat your own history.
Accept everyone as they are: Nodding grants you the peace of love, when you accept you open the door to transformation.
✨Honour your ancestors: Those who lived before you... they did the best they knew how to do, give you life.
Thank everyone in your system every day: You don't need to run to them and give them a hug, sincere gratitude arises when you give them a place in your heart and reverence them from your soul.
Walk towards Life with humility: live with joy, surrender into its hands, accept your destiny with love and courage.
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