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Today's Topic : BUILDING CHILDREN’S CONFIDENCE

"The greatest thing you can give a child is confidence"

What is Confidence?

Why Confidence Is Important

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Confident Person Can Possess

Here are just a few ways that can improve your own self-confidence which is manifests of real world achievements

1. Increased Performance in Daily Task
2. More happiness and enjoyment in work
3. Social Ease in society
4. Better Health Automatically
5. Greater strength and capabilities
6. Freedom from fear and anxiety
7. People will like you
8. Positive contribution at work
9. You are more committed with work
10. Large Social circle and More Connections

Build Children's Confidence

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1. Children learn more by trying for themselves

It is a common phenomenon that practice makes a man perfect more likely children also learn a lot by own self practicing, parents must provide them chances to make innovation and inventions. Which is key point to build healthy confidence.

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1. Provide them such puzzles and blocks and ask them to make it complete.
2. Provide them such toys which can increase their innovations.

2. Accept Children for Who They Are

Encouragement have an impact on one to enhance his performance and ability. It is a natural phenomenon. Parents can change behavior and increase the confidence of their children by the trust on the abilities and qualities they have. Parents can build self-confidence and positive behavior by giving them different task.

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1. Listen well and pay attention to them to release them that they have value in the house.
2. The teacher can conduct different activities in school and can assign different roles accordingly interest of the child.

3. Be a Positive Mirror

A child born with a mind like blank paper Parents and Its Environment are those factors who can paint this paper either with black or white. The child behaves accordingly to his environment, it is a reflection of Parent’s behavior.

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1. Parents and Teachers avoid negative behavior in front of children.
2. Teachers and Parents Try to avoid abuses and Clash within families.
3. Teachers and Parents try to teach children be humble and nice to others.
4. Teacher and Parents must give them concept of sharing goods with others by practice examples.

4. Act as a Role Model

Parents try to behave gently and not try to perform such activities which make them shame and guilt when their children will do the same. They must be acting as a role model to children.

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1. Don’t tell a lie and back biting in front of children because they will learn from you.
2. Take them with you when you go for groceries in the market.
3. Try to teach them how to be merciful and kind to other by your practice. If you will nice and kind to another your children will also want to be.

5. Offer Appropriate Reward

Praised increase the passion and interest to peak levels of anyone. This feeling pushes a person to give his good whatever value he is providing. Parents must be offer praise to their children, even on little efforts. This feeling involves believing that one is better in particular are a result is high level self-esteem and healthy confidence.

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1. Parents must give them appreciation even on small task, it will give them a new soul to do extra.
2. Teachers should also appreciate them on their homework or in school.
3. Parents can make them more confident by the support and appreciation on their grades and positive activities.

6. Raise Confident of a Child by Giving Special Jobs and Responsibilities

Parents can make their child more confident and can make them able to survive in society by assigning some responsibilities and by giving those special jobs either you can do in a better way. These small jobs will develop a habit of hardworking and work with responsibility ultimate lead to confidence to do something.

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7. By Playing Together With child

A child feels happy and secure when he is with his parents. Parent’s affection, quality time, and playing with their children develop a positive response and healthy self-confidence. Parents should spare their time with their children to give them the feelings of trust and confidence.

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1. Parents can play hide and seek, Badminton, cricket, carom board, or Ludo with their children it will help them to learn more than in the case of others.

8. Address Your Child by Name

This is common practice in society we call others with their nicknames. Its impact on personality directly if one misuse the nick of the other and also other feel inferior sometime and in result lose his confidence.

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1. Don’t call your child with nickname either in front of others or individually. It seems to be making fun of name some time has bad impact.
2. One feels proud when it called by its name.

9. Validate your child's Feelings

Parents and teachers as well must try to develop good relationships with children so that they feel easy to share anything with them without any fear. If this will not happen then a child will try to move towards telling lies, stuff their feelings and feel alone as well in the result he will lose trust and confidence.

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1. Parents should treat their children as friends so they can share easily
2. Parents and Teachers try to overcome the generation gap with children. Mean try to interact with them on their level.
3. Parents and Teachers try to judge by themselves expressions and feelings of children.
4. Parents and Teachers can also ask for children gradually after some interval that have they any problem.

10. Encourage them to pursue their interests

One should choose a profession in which he has interest, then he can perform extraordinary with passion and hard working. Same case with Child's parents must give them a free hand to select their area of interest. It will give them confidence and passion to do something extraordinary.

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1. Parents must notice the interests and hobbies of children
2. Help them in the selection of their area of interest, never impose your Will on them.
3. The teacher can help and guide them which area would be best for them don’t peruse them according to your point of view.

11. Criticize the action, not the person.(don’t criticize your child)

Criticism crush one’s personality badly, a person feels stressed and depression when anyone criticizes on him. Parents must try to avoid criticism on their children. Or if they feel necessary to do this then it must be to act not a person.

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1. Parents and Teachers must not criticize a child. If necessity, then criticize less.
2. Criticism must be for reforms and renew the mistakes.
3. Criticize them in positive manner less criticize more hope.

12. Never Compare your child to others

Comparison kills self-confidence. One start to compare it with others in every part of his life and in this case a fear rule his mind which force a person believing that he is not good in a particular area. Good practice never compares your child with another because no one can replace or qualities of your kid.

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1. Try to talk them positively and not involve any other person as compared.
2. Parents always compare habits of their children with the good habits of other children this approach is wrong and annoying.
3. The teacher should not compare dull students with intelligent students. It will result as Inferior feelings in dull ones.

Conclusion

Confidence is a really wide term and can be hard to characterize as it's so individual. The vast majority considers Confidence to be having a faith in yourself, someone else or a thought.

And building Confidence in our Children is most important thing now, we should focus on it.

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