The value of TEARS | by @yunika

Hello everyone.. it's been a while i posted here and this was due to some issues concerning my device but I'm back now and i hope you're all doing great... If that's the case then let's get started.

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This drawing was realized by me @yunika with the aid of a mechanic pencil, an HB pencil, an A4 paper, an eraser and a cotton bud.

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Have you ever given your trust to someone you value and the person values you back ? That is one of the best feelings someone might ever have. Now imagine they start giving you the impression you are being a nuisance to them, they start giving you space and making you feel like you've never meant anything for them. That is one of the worse feelings someone might ever have.

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The heart gets frozen and tears are being formed when it melts.

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Some people may see crying as a sign of weakness which i think it's not. Having tears run down your chicks is when you're being hurt emotionally and words were insufficient for you to explain the pain you endured.

A real fact about tears is that they don't fix things. But also, they make you feel better. After you've cried out your pain, it leaves you and you now think about bringing up a solution to the cause of the tears.

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Getting to the cause of the tears.
We cause our fellow ones, friends and family to be in tears. Having someone's trust broken, when you make them think what you feel for them has faded, when you make them feel they've loosed thier Place in your life or when your attitude changes towards them.

We hurt people everyday knowingly and unknowingly. So come to think about this
What will you gain when you get someone broken ?
Tears mean allot they're supposed to be valued.
Tears should be for joy or regrets and not for a broken mind or heart

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Tears symbolizes three(3) things
-Realization
-Acceptance
-Embracement

• when you realize the truth and it leads you to be in tears

• when you accept that it's just reality and there's nothing you can do to reverse the tears you cried

• when you chose to be strong and embrace your new self.

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You will never know how it feels till you see someone you love in tears or till you discover yourself in those tears

I've been hurt before and I've experienced that and it was not a good experience at all so i decided to share with everyone one here so you can know how it costs to put someone in tears and plead we should avoid it

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I think it should be enough reason for us not to hurt someone
And another fact is, even if you apologize after hurting someone, they may accept your apology but you will never own back the place you once owned in thier life
So think twice before you hurt someone.

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Thanks for reading, stay safe ☺️