Hello @steemkidss friend, how's your day? I pray that I will be in good health and always happy. Today I made a post to take part in the contest that is held by mr. @bright-obias in this @steemkids community that we love. The theme is also very interesting, related to children, namely Let's Shop For Our Children. I'm going to start this post of mine.
Being a parent to four children is a wonderful thing for me, something very special. As we know children are the most beautiful gifts given by God and entrusted in the midst of our families. Various crusts and unique traits they have, this unique thing that makes our children have a desire to have and want to know something that looks and comes to their mind. New things they always try, it's natural because here their curiosity increases towards something they don't know yet.
The simple thing to see the basic character that children have regarding the desire to know many things, is when we go to take them to a shopping place. There they will ask and continue to ask with something that they find interesting. If we do not fulfill his request, it is made sure that grieving and crying is their mainstay. But if we obey their wishes or just one of the requests we make, then a smile and happiness will radiate on the face of this little angel angel. Now the question arises:
If you go shopping for kids, what's the best gift to buy for them?
The answer is what they want, but for this I limit them to certain items or purchases. If there is or less money when shopping with them, I still limit it. We need to know, obeying or giving gifts excessively also has a bad impact on them. Why is that? Because we get used to them being free to ask for what they want, it will have an effect in the future. If the freedom of shopping is not limited, then until adulthood children will demand to be fulfilled everything they want.
But for now, toys, sweets, ice cream, fried chicken and chocolate are some of the gifts I often give when shopping with them.
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If financially possible, I often give my child something special. Before even buying them, I do a question and answer question about what objects, toys, or food they want.. For example, a few months ago, my son really wanted to have a swimming pool at home. Of course this surprised me, how to make a pool in this small house, but I have an idea, and the idea of presenting something in accordance with the topic of the contest is:
Have you ever bought a gift for kids? How did he react after receiving the gift?
The answer is ever, one of them is to give them an artificial swimming pool. This is in accordance with their desire to have a swimming pool at home. And the reaction was very resjoicing, they really cheered as if they had forgotten everything. With a happy look on their faces they asked to be directly used, and willingly lingered in the pool almost forgot about time. It's incredible.
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Indeed, gifts are something that can make children happy, sometimes gifts can also be used as motivation for children to get something we want to embrace their development. For example, motivating gifts as a way to increase grades in school, or motivating them to do something according to the rules. Now the question arises:
In many cases that children love gifts, why do you think they like and are so affected by gifts.
When it comes to gifts, let alone adult children love it. Gifts can make a person's happiness level increase, even more so to children. If the gift is made a motivation, then children will be very happy to do it, even adults are the same.
Conclusion
A gift is something that is very happy if someone receives it, not even for children, adults are the same. By receiving a gift, it will bring happiness to a child. But gifts can also affect child psychology, if the gift has become something that children wait for, then without us realizing we have instilled selfish attitudes in children. The key to the use of gifts where they should be, limiting gift members does not mean we love them, but to teach them that gifts are not everything for children.
My regards to
@steemkidss
@bright-obias
@ngoenyi
@fantvwiki You are an exemplary father because you are teaching your children values that will impact their lives. It is true that we as parents would like to be complacent in giving them everything they ask for, but on the other hand is the fact that if we do so we will be condoning certain attitudes that will not help them grow emotionally as they should, you have made a very good post.
Nice family!
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Thank you, The place to share ways, stories, creativity, hobbies, about children, as well as a gathering place for child lovers is @steemkidss.
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