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Remember these five things to be a good parents |
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Determining boundaries
Yes it will be quite difficult because we all love our children very much. But at some point we cross the line.Even if you find that you allow your children to be a little more independent, you should still set some limits.But how to limit love? The answer lies within 'I', not 'you'. You have to clarify your role, not your children's.
So that means you have to say, 'I know you want to get away on a night bus ride, but I'm not ready to allow that right now.'Parents should not say 'No you are only 13 years old, you are still too young.'No one likes someone else talking about them like that. So define yourself, not your children.
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Accept every mood of your children Our mistake is that we want our children to be extremely happy all the time.It's like we love them too much to never see them down. So we say to them: 'Don't be sad.'But it is important that we allow them to have all kinds of moods while always being with them.We must acknowledge all children's emotions so that children are no longer frustrated when they are sad or angry
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Remember that you are a reflection of your child You match your child. It would not be wrong to say that you are their human reflection.Our behavior towards children becomes part of their personality.If we keep telling them, 'Look, your shoes are dirty!', they will always see your angry face.
It is important that you joke with them first and then mention the dirty shoes.You should always try to show happiness when meeting them.
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All behavior is a way of talking If you think your child's behavior is wrong, remember this: All behavior is a way of communicating.
Children want to tell you something with this behavior and this is the best way for them to say it. So you should try to find out the real meaning of such behavior and then help them to express what they feel in clear words without hesitation.
We should accept all their feelings, even if they don't seem right. We should teach children to express their feelings and not worry about what we would do if we were in their place.
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Your child is not a project' According to the psychologist, "your child is not an exercise that you can quickly dispose of", Nor is it a project that you can best complete.
"Your child is a person with his own individuality."Whether children are young or old, they are first and foremost a human being.
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