Like my story in previous contest, children are like sponges who absorb whatever they see and hear and then imitate it without knowing the good or the bad. I found a kid who often spoke harshly to their friends or elders, and I also found a kid who spoke ethically and politely. It reflects how their parents set an example for these children. Parents play an important role in being an example for kids, so be a good parent and set a good example for your children.
Even though I'm not married and don't have kids yet, but my love for kids and their development is unquestionable, I joined this community because I love kids. Kids now are young people in the future who will replace us who are getting old and dead. It is their generation that will produce the best works that will exceed the works of our generation. Generations must change and follow the times and create works that are in accordance with the times, as expressed by Indonesian Women's Figures below:
Just waiting for the birth of a generation of creators, those who will make Indonesia proud with their works.
—Najwa Shihab
Being a Role Model for kids is every adult's obligation, because we don't know when and where a child imitates our behavior. I have to set high standards for myself, because I have many nieces and nephews, so if there is my bad behavior, my nephews and my nieces will not imitate.
I started from small things to be a role model for the kids around me, it's not a perfect strategy but I hope it will have a good impact on the kids around me especially my nephews and nieces. Children have their own talents and strengths, which have started to show at their young age. For example, my curious nephew Fatih is more visible in his talent in communication, and he often discusses with me and sometimes expresses his own opinion. While Fairel is the creative one is more visible in the field of fishing, every time he fishes there are always fish that eat the hook, because he learns how to choose bait for the fish he wants to catch.
Understanding their different talents and abilities, I have a simple strategy for them which is how they develop their soft skills from an early age. Hard Skills and Soft Skills are two things that cannot be separated from human abilities. In My Opinion, Hard Skills are the knowledge that we learn in school or other formal institutions such as, Social Sciences, History, Natural Sciences, Legal Studies and so on. While soft skills are obtained from life experience, advice from parents, organizations and several places.
I have started to apply this strategy to several of my nephews, not only discourse, with simple steps too, such as the strategy I applied to Fatih and Fairel, such as:
This is to develop their determination towards the goals we have agreed upon. For example, Fatih, who likes to talk, made an agreement with me that at the end of the school year at Kindergarten, he would represent his friend to give a farewell speech. Remember, reward them for achieving their goals.
This is to develop their leadership, management, cooperation and communication skills. I often give them tasks to do simple things in groups with rewards in return. For example, cleaning their scattered playground and picking up trash around their playground. Now that they are used to organize their self, Fairel is more developed than his other friends in leadership skills.
As I said above, children are born with their respective talents. But my nephews has a common talent in music, singing and dancing. Chief Of My Village and I saw this potential and formed an art and culture studio for them to develop their talents. Apart from that, in the field of sports, we also hold small football and chess tournaments for them.
When someone asked me that I believe in myself if I have an influence on the children around me. The answer can be seen from the strategy that I have implemented for the development of the kids around me.
Talking about my role model, I can answer firmly to anyone "My mother is my role model". From the few things I learned from my mother, it was her determination towards the goal that I wanted to imitate. After my father paased away, she stopped thinking about herself and only focused on the two of us, her sons. Until I graduated from Law School and became a Lawyer and my little brother was finishing his architectural studies. She did not think about finding a new husband as replacement for my father until now, even though she was very young when my father died. It's her determination that I haven't been able to fully emulate to this day, because her sacrifice is not easy sacrifice.
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