Week 10- 👉 "Your Story , Your Laughter or Your Cry (•ิ‿•ิ) (Let's Share my story With Each Other)"

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Week #10 begins "Your Story , Your Laughter or Your Cry" (Let's Share With Each Other) hosted by @moyeon in Steem Kids & Parents

I want To tell my story, There is sadness as well as happiness in this story of mine and there is also the truth of life.

I will have to look into the past, at the very beginning of this story you will be surprised that I was only 18 years old and I was only in the first year of graduation.

Then, under some special circumstances, I put pressure on my parents and married a girl whom I neither knew nor recognized before, nor had I ever seen her.

Actually What happened was that the girl was going to get married to someone else and just 2 days before the marriage, the girl's groom had refused to marry her.

And coincidentally, I was also invited to this wedding, and I had a deep connection with this girl's family. When I went to meet them at their house two days before the wedding, everyone's faces were sad, whereas there should have been happiness.

After I asked a lot, the girl's family told me the truth, I was also very sad to hear this and I went home and told all this to my mother, and told her that I wanted to marry that girl.

My mother was shocked to hear my words because at that time my two elder brothers were unmarried and I was almost the youngest in the house. And in those days, any marriage in our family was done only after the child turned 22-23 years old.

But I was adamant and told my mother to convince me even if he was my father. Seeing my stubbornness, my mother talked to my father. My father was also shocked at what I said and protested.

It was not easy to convince him. Then I presented my side till 2 o'clock in the night, when my father accepted my point with some conditions. Then at 2-30 in the night my father, my mother and my elder sister reached the girl's house and told them my wish.

They all were shocked to hear my decision, but after discussion till morning, the matter was resolved. And thus I became the reason for the happiness of a crying family.

And two days later, we got married in the daytime in the presence of only 11-12 people without any transaction, whereas in our Agarwal community there is a lot of transaction in marriages.

[My own photo]
On the day of marriage, I came to know for the first time that my wife's height is 1 foot 5 inches less than me, my height is 6 feet 2 inches and her height is 4 feet 9 inches around . A friend of mine also attended my wedding. He made fun of me and said that this is the wedding of Lambu [long] and Short [small].

Then I explained to him by saying that brother, the smaller the problem (wife), the better it is.

And that problem means that my wife and I have been living a happy life for the last 40-41 years.

I also want to invite here :
@haidee @naty16 and @shahid2030

Thanks for reading my post .

Your friend .