heya @steemkidss I was just passing by when I saw this , and its very interesting topic for me cause ima mother of 5 cookie monsters . but I think it the HOME influences our kids more , my eldest son is 12 years old , he is like a boy version of me , and shame to say , I was bully back on high school days , one day my son is telling me that he bullied the bully . it back fires at me but I took a deep breath and told him , "well, it was his fault , he is the one started the bullying , and you just stood up for someone , BUT! you are still young and that is not your responsibility , next time you saw someone getting bullied , tell the teachers or advisers and let them handle it ."
cause I dont want him to feel proud and happy cause eventually he will look for that feelings more . and might get him into bullying just like I did before . AND he listen to me .
one day I was outside his classroom to check him out , and I saw his classmate doing imaginary plane landing on his head WHILE HIS WRITING NOTES ! and he just don't mind it as if it was just a fly or summin . when I get talk to him , I asked whos the kid bugging him while taking notes , he laugh and said thats the one i bullied mom , so I asked why his just ignoring him as his playing imaginary plane on his head , he said , his annoying so I just ignore him . he also said when his about to get mean face , the annoying kid stops . but most of the time he just let him annoyed him . .in my thoughts , that annoying kid must be so annoyed that he cant annoy ma son . therefore its HOME influences kids more .no matter what they deal on school , its still up to us parents on how we gonna teach our kids on how dealing stuff . #influence #contest #Philippines #steemit