Recreative Steem -SEC - S9W6: " My Biggest Challenge "

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In life, a challenge is step by step towards transforming ourselves into better human beings. There are various kinds of challenges in life, starting from a lack of self-confidence, disappointing friends, angry neighbors, naughty siblings and many more. The challenge is present not to make our journey in life difficult, but rather it is like a pebble that the longer we face it, the more we will finally find satisfaction, pride and extraordinary gratitude.

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What has been your biggest challenge?

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Life is like a spinning wheel, sometimes it is above and sometimes it is below and it steps on the ground, stone, wood, water, whatever is there. We must be ready not to go through all these challenges so that we become stronger, better and wiser human beings. I am also an ordinary human being, in living this life, I have various challenges ranging from small to challenges that make me almost give up and go into grief.

The challenge started since I got married. All couples want to form a complete and complete family as well as me and my husband. We got married and I had a baby. Everyone is very happy and we can't wait for our first child to be born. However, 4 months into my pregnancy, I had a miscarriage. My heart is broken and everyone is sad. My spirit is broken and I'm scared, I'm afraid if I can't get pregnant again.

Then my husband asked me to go on vacation to recover mentally, which at that time was not fine. A year later, we were given the trust again, I felt very happy but the happiness didn't last long, the doctor said that I had an abortion and had to undergo a curette operation. I was in shock, the world seemed to collapse and I was very sad that I had to experience this once again in such a short time. During the curette operation, I was under general anesthesia and after the operation I was unconscious for 4 hours.

The challenge was so hard, I almost forgot what I had back then. Then after two years of marriage, the doctor said that I had a cyst in the uterus. I didn't give up and tried to seek treatment everywhere until that glimmer of hope returned, I got pregnant and gave birth to a beautiful daughter, without a cesarean section and my daughter is healthy without any deficiencies. A year and a half later I gave birth to a handsome and healthy son. Owh, you will never know how a wife feels whose enthusiasm has been lost many times and finally comes back again. Alhamdulillah, I am very grateful to be able to go through this biggest challenge.

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Tell us how did you get over it?

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Surrender to the situation without reducing effort and prayer. Yes, I always pray to the one who created everything in this world to be given strength and enthusiasm to pass this challenge. I believe that everything is predestined including the belief in having children. I thought maybe it wasn't fair at the time, but maybe I wasn't ready then.

My husband and I keep trying, we even have to seek treatment here and there and back and forth with very long distances. We don't stop hoping, because hope is always there as long as we don't stop giving up. After dark comes light, right now we really enjoy the role of parents, and we are still learning and learning again to shape a good future for us when we are old and for our children later.

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What advice can you give us from your experience?

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Challenges will always be there, he will never stop until his last breath. I still have a lot to learn and improve myself, but at least from this experience, I can give some advice;

• Never give up, let alone blame circumstances
• Keep trying, because effort will not betray results
• Continue to be with people who will encourage you, not those who will bring you down
• Think positively because we never know what we will get tomorrow
• Challenges are not to be cried over, but to make us better and grateful people
• Have good hopes, because it will be a time base that will keep us excited

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Until here, my participation in the Steemit Engagement Challenge S9W6 at RECREATIVE STEEM Community.
I would like to invite my friends to participate in this Steemit Engagement Challenge, @alegnita @wirngo @hasini @hotspotitaly @lirvic @nancy0

^{Thank you also for supporting me at every opportunity}

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