Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 57: What gender do you prefer your child to be?

Not everyone are favor to have them, it is only by God's Grace. Treat them with care, love, they are your pride.

Boy or girl child, which do you think is more expensive to train? Give your reasons

Mum, dad, please buy this for me 

When you what to spend money and couldn't keep an acount on the expenses you made is to train a girl child. Omg, this gender needs a lot. Girls needs are more than boys needs as such it will be more expensive. Even when you buy things for the girls, they will still need more.

Girls are good changers. Hardly they repeat what they have even in this time that things are not moving well, girls still needs to change their footwear, hairstyles, clothes, make the face appear more attractive and many more. All the know is mummy buy this, mummy buy that.

Not caring about if the parents have money or not. Their concern is to buy so that their mind will be in peace and to feel happy. Sometimes, I wonder the expenses parents that have 4-6 girls in the family spent.

If you were to be a parent today, which gender do you prefer to have as your children? Give us your reasons

 No boring in the house 

Do I have power on my own to bring forth children? Why then should I choose if God blesses me with any.

As a parent, I see children to be a special gift and blessing from God, as such, am gladly welcome both gender to my home. Having male and female gender in the home makes the family sweet. The two gender will look after each other making sure everyone is happy.

The girl child are known to be very caring gender, they will care for the boys and the parents as well. The boys are known to be the coverage, showing protection over the girls, assisting the girls in any house chores that needs strength like breaking firewood. The male will continue the family name when they grow up and married while the female will bring another different person to the family and the family increases in number and makes the home a balanced and happy home.

During adolescence, which gender shows tendencies to go out of control? Why

Child upbringing lies in the hands of the parents. Yes, very well, children that reach adolescence stage will act and shows some form of stubbornness, going out of control, in this point what do the parents do.

   Adolescence style

From what I observed since I grow up, the female gender are mostly those that involves in this and something I used to think that is natural because during adolescence, only girls will feel that, they know more than they elder. Words of advice makes no sense to them until they run into a state of confusion, regret, before coming to their sense's.

Adolescence time is the period parents should be very sensitive about in their children life. They should be able to know everything about their children irrespective of the gender including the type of friends their children keep, both inside and outside as peer group is another reason why children go out of control.

What do you think about the statement; "what a boy can do, a girl can do better"?

 Baby boy washing clothes 

The statement is one among the statement that people will say till tomorrow. To me, am not doubting that, what a boy can do, a girl can do better" but let's see on this way, the Bible refer us girls as a weaker vessel. This alone should tell all the female gender that no matter what, there is something our physical strength cannot carry.

By this word the Bible is taking about, can a girl do better than a boy? There are so many things/ areas girls can fit in very well than boy but the girls seeing themselves in this area, should not conclude or fully assumed themselves that they can do better than boy.

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Thank you 💕.