When friends betray me

It's a very bad feeling to see that someone you trust more than yourself ends up betraying you.
Life is so cruel and heartbroken when your friends betray the trust that you have for them.
I am going to tell you about my experience, thanks to @ruthjoe for organising this wonderful contest idea.

in your understanding, tell us what you understand by the word betrayal?

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Betrayal is simply a scenario of broken trust, loyalty, friendship, relationship, and family.
They are simply different ways in which you can betray someone, for instance when someone you love so dearly is deceiving you and don't care about you, once you find out you will be heartbroken and devastated.
Sometimes we trust people so badly and give them money to keep for them but in the end, they will end up spending it.

Have you ever been betrayed by anyone? Tell us what happened.

Yes, of course, I have once been betrayed by a girl that I truly loved and cared so much about.
She left me without saying a word, and it hurt me so badly.
I love that lady so much that I was ready to do anything for her, but I didn't know thatbshe never loved me, she was only with my because of her own selfish benefits and after she got what she wanted she started giving me some attitudes and I felt so bad.

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The worst of it was that I wasn't even ready to be in any relationship because I was very comfortable being a single man. My mental health is very important to me.
She forced me into it because at the beginning, she showed me love and care and also excess attention, so I started developing feelings for her.
When I asked her out, she accepted immediately, and I thought I found myself a good companion, not knowing that it would end up in a very bad way.

When your intentions are pure, you don't lose them they loose you

This lady betray that trust that I have on her, she dump me because of a guy that I knew vividly that I am far better than, but at the end it was a very good experience because I learned a lot and especially not to trust a woman anymore.
I just pray that I find myself a good partner who will love and treat me. Honestly speaking, I deserve to be loved because my type of men are few.

We know that betrayal may lead to heartbreak, tell us ways to heal from such betrayal?

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They are many ways to heal from such betrayal, I know it will be very difficult due to the good time you both have spent together. I am giving this advice based on my experience.

It is best that you seek advice from those close to you, especially your family, friends, and loved ones.
Try to explain it to them and I believe they will give you reasons to be happy again.

Use that opportunity to invest in yourself, I mean, focus on things that will make you happy.
Try to focus on your personal growth, learn new ideas, develop your overall well-being, and focus on your hobbies.
Relax your mind, practice some meditation, and it will really help you to heal from this terrible moment.

How do you deal with people who have broken your heart several times?

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The best way that I deal with people who have broken my heart is to set boundaries with them. I mean, I distance myself from them and also try not to ever trust them ever again.
When they have the opportunity, they treat me like trash, so I will for me the best way to become a better version of yourself so that they will always regret losing you.

Just imagine when a lady dumped you and after a while you're doing far better than where they left you for this is the perfect revenge.

^{I am inviting @ulfatulrahmah, @josepha, @pandora2010, @lirvic and @goodybest to participate in this wonderful contest}