Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 17: No Money, No Love.

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Hello and welcome to my blog, how are you you all doing as I hope that all has been working out fine. Am really glad to be joining in this incredible contest in this community.

Is there any relationship between the two concept (love and money) in a relationship?

Yes, I can say that money and love are just like siblings in a relationship, and most especially without money I don't really think that a relationship can equally stand between a man and a woman due to the things I have seen happening in this life, most women no longer marry a man because of the things she feels for him, rather they go ahead to marry a man due to the money he has.

It is not only applicable to women, there are other men out there that equally agrees to marry a woman because she is wealthy, or because her parents are rich, but I can say that it is most seen in women. Many men and women have married people who are twice older than them just because of the money they have and not just that they feel any additional thing for them.

Money especially is the strong pillar that allows any relationship to stand or last for a long time, wuthout money some people might divorce each other and their stupid reason would be that the man is not capable of providing for the family.

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Can true love exist or thrive for a long time without money

Based on the things I have seen today, it depends on the kind of person you finally enagae yourself with, in the beginning of marriage when everyone is young both the male and female, it gets interesting even though the two couples don't have much money. But as time goes on that particular relationship becomes toxic, the wife will start to insult the husband just because he doesn't have the resource to provide for the family.

Another thing that keeps on confusing women in a relationship is that, they keep comparing their family to another man's family, they will often tell there husband that the money he gives to her is not always enough, they will say "can't you see the kind of good food the other family cooks", most women always wants more than enough and not knowing that it is reakky hard to make money in life.

I will conclude this section of my post by saying that true love still exist whereas fake love also exist, we are humans and we all are not thesame in the way we think, there are people who marry a man or a woman due to the love they have for them, while there are others who marry for money and material things.

Do you subscribe to this school of though? Back up your yes or no answer with valid points

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Truely in our world today, NO MOBEY, NO LOVE, nobody wants to be poor and more especially women, nobody wants to come into the family and Helo the husband build their economy, what they want is always coming into a family which has been already built with the sweat of another person.

Nobody wants to suffer, it is in the olden days that such love exist, but in our world today, there is nothing like true love, even if you are wealthy and gets married, once your money is gone, they will leave you and run away to another person who is more wealthy than you, all you have to do is to hustle and try to make good money, then avoid those who avoided you when you were nothing. Because it is said that it is only when things are hard that you can know your true friends and fores.

Share your experience for or against the statement

It is not a personal experience, but it is something that happened to someone who was living close to us, the man was really wealthy and live a good life, people cane to hin for money and he offered them, later he married a beautiful wife and they lived happily and they had just twi children.

But as time goes on things began to change, all of a sudden he well very ill that they spent all the money they had juat for his sake, when everything is gone the wife took the children and traveled to his father's home and leaving the man with nothing at home. But thanks to the almighty that that same man was healed by the almighty and he resumed his work and starting living a good life.

Whereas the wife was still at his father's house, the man never wanted her back, he only took his children and till today, he is a single parents and also receives parental help from his mother who he invited to come and live with them.

Thank you all for reading through this list, I will like to invite @richy20, @graceani, @vincent100

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