Can Love and Prenups Coexist?.

Complement of the hour of the day to you Steemians all over the world. Today i will be discussing on the topic: Can Love and Prenups Coexist?

This is a great question that we don't need to answer in a rush but apply wisdom in answering it. Today i can say that many persons don't have time to knowing whom they want to get married to. They just rush into it because of their eagerness and before you knew it, they are divorced! This is why prenups coexist in the love they claimed having for each another.

I will be going into details following the contest guide to explain more on this topic. So stay tune and read to the end to get the real deal just below:

What is a premarital agreement and what are some reason why people need or avoid them.

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The word Pre means before. Now, premarital agreement is an agreement that takes place before marriage. For example: The woman might own a house on her own before meeting the young man and the both of them comes to love each other. The lady can call for prenups likewise the man.

She can say this house is my personal property and the man can also say this company is my personal company but i will be giving you 10% of its returns.

The reasons for this premarital agreement is to prevent future argument between couples and this is the reasons why this argument should be avoided in future through premarital agreement (before getting married).

Is a prenuptial agreement a sign of distrust between a couple? Is it needed among couples who love and trust each other? So Can Love and Prenups Coexist?

I will say that prenuptial agreement is not a sign of distrust but a based of taking away future argument between couples that can lead to distrust in marriage.

For example, we all know that some couples have already had children outside before coming together. Now some men might not really want to take up that responsibility of another man's child, and that is the main reasons why this prenuptial agreement is needed among couples who loved and trust themselves upon getting married.

At this point, we can now see that love and prenups coexist in marriage and is not a bad thing. May be in future, if the man has really seen the hard work of his wife, the prenups can be subject to amendment, and he can say i will give you 30% of my company's earnings and gradually, they are knowing themselves better and hoping to live their entire life together.

Are you for or against the signing of a prenup. State your reasons.

Bellow are my major reasons on
standing for the signing of prenup

1. It eliminate future argument in marriage
2. It helps the couple to know their boundaries when it comes to what they own and share in the marriage.
3. It creates confident in the marriage
4. Upon getting married, the woman can decide that she will collect a certain amount from the man as a settlement if divorce takes place.
5. It makes the both parties to know their responsibilities if they had kids outside before coming together.
6. It helps them to create and agreed on having their personal account and a joint account for their family.

The above points are the major reasons why I'm for the signing of the prenup.

Will your future spouse' insistence or refusal to sign a prenup prevent you from getting married?

This has no effect from couples getting married if your future spouse refused in signing the prenup. The other party might see's it as a sign of more trust but sometimes, we don't have same reasoning, and this is why you both should know yourselves before getting married to avoid those challenges that will come in marriage.

How did [or would] you bring up the idea of a Prenup to your fiancée. Presenting what as benefits or reasons (Reserved for those who are in support of a prenup arrangement)

You can use other couples around who had great challenges in marriage and now they are divorced to placed before your spouse.

At this point, you can point out how the woman was divorce without gaining any thing from the man due to they wasn't any prenup in their marriage.

Tell your spouse the importance of this premarital agreement as listed in number 3 points above. Which i stand for it, and how it can help you both to be free from future conflict with each other. This create privacy for couples and make them to know what they have, own and share in the love they have with each other.

Conclusion

Premarital agreement is very important in marriages today. This is because the world is developing rapidly and more things are coming to light.

If your spouse had talk about prenup and you have a fair knowledge about it, try to agree with her for the love the both of you shared.

Note, this doesn't mean distrust of your partner but to avoid all the conflict we are seeing today in different marriages.

Remember to have a separate bank account and a joint bank account. The reason is, if you want to send money to that your sister that your husband don't really cherished, you can just send from your own account without asking your husband or taking permission from him likewise the man.

Thank you very much for reading to this point and I hope you found value?

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