Courtship: How should it be.

Courtship is an important step in the journey of a lifetime partnership. In today's society, courtship has evolved and taken in various forms, with many people going through unconventional approaches to finding their perfect match. With all this going on, it is important to ask ourselves "How should courtship be?", so that we can potentially find a solution to it.

Courtship is a period when two people are getting to know each other with the intention of starting a strong relationship or getting married. Courtship is different from casual dating as it involves more commitment. Courtship is a time in which individuals involved learn about each other's likes, dislikes and values. It's a time for building a connection and determining if they are compatible for a long-term relationship.

Yes, I do believe in courtship. It's a valuable process that allows individuals to really get to know each other before starting a relationship. Courtship provides an opportunity to build a foundation of trust and understanding, which can contribute to a healthier and more fulfilling long-term partnership.

Although the period of courtship is not fixed since it depends on various factors such as individuals involved, their readiness etc, courtship should not necessarily take too long. Some couples may prefer a longer courtship that spans several years, but the most important thing is that both individuals feel comfortable and ready to make a lifelong commitment to each other.

While courtship can lay a foundation for a successful marriage, it is never a guarantee. Courtship provides an opportunity for individuals to get to know each other deeply, build connection before making decision for a long-term commitment. However, the success of a marriage depends on many factors beyond courtship. Even with a perfect courtship period, couples still need to put effort in their relationship, be committed and willing to grow and adapt together. Therefore, while courtship can contribute positively to the foundation of a successful marriage, it's only one piece of the larger puzzle.

It's a NO for me! Especially in the Christian's faith, sex outside marriage wedlock is a sin (1cor. 6:18). Abstaining from sex during courtship commands respect for one another and shows that they are committed and ready for the responsibilities of marriage.

As a man, take the lead in initiating and maintaining the courtship. You should show the woman that you are interested in her, and that you value her. You should also be respectful of her boundaries, and not pressure her into anything she is not comfortable with. As a woman, let the man pursue you, then show him that you appreciate his efforts and attention. You should also be dignified, and not flirt with other men or send mixed signals.