Steem4Nigeria Accelerator Contest Week5- My Life Mistakes and How I Intend to Correct Them.

My Life Mistakes and How I Intend to Correct Them.

What are the mistakes you think you have made since you were born?

Trusting others without doing any checks

The way we develop relationships based on trust is being shaped by this either/or mindset. One person must take the initiative to extend trust to the other in order for trust to be created. There is no way around the riskiness of it. There wouldn't be a need for trust if there were no risk.

We must develop trust if we are to move toward establishing common ground with one another. It's not either/or with trust. Just because you trust someone doesn't mean you always do.
Trust is therefore situational.

People you can trust care about other people. They care about the welfare of others and are kind and sympathetic. They are happy to talk about themselves and the company. Being a good listener, asking for input, and taking into account other people's opinions while making decisions are all traits of a connected person who values relationships.

Never rely; always make sure. It's a clever slogan that works well for a business marketing a product for digital security, but it ruins relationships. Without some degree of trust, no connection of any kind can exist. In order to establish trust, someone must take the initiative while holding out hope and confidence that the other party will demonstrate their reliability.

Seeking Instant Gratification and Shortcuts
The propensity to sacrifice the benefits of delayed gratification in favor of a smaller but more immediate payoff is known as instant gratification. This type of behavior is frequently observed in daily activities when I went for shopping at discounted stores, spending hours on social media, or consuming bad food rather than preparing healthier meals.

Our propensity for instant satisfaction is influenced by both biological and psychological factors. It is possible to think of satisfaction as a natural reaction brought on by behavior that seeks rewards since it is, on a biological level, a sensation of enjoyment experienced after attaining a goal or satisfying a desire. Faster than ever before, pleasure is now achievable because to the internet, automation, and smart gadgets. For example, today's reactions happen in seconds to minutes as opposed to days or even weeks in the past.

Instant satisfaction has benefited humans and their predecessors in terms of evolution. Quick actions were advantageous even throughout the early human eras, when the primary focus was on survival, giving mankind some advantages over animals that require lengthier planning and thinking processes. Because endorphins are released into our bodies when we perform something thrilling, they are linked to the need for rapid fulfillment.

Do you think it is your past mistakes that are affecting your growth in life

That defies belief. If one is deliberate about it, mistakes may be fixed. Even when such errors are enormous, something can still be done to partially repair them.
There is always going to be a substitute for it.

My development is unaffected by my prior faults. I was able to see my errors and made a commitment to make amends. Even though it wasn't simple, I was determined to find a solution.

If the individual making the mistake does not seek for a means to correct it and does not learn from it, then mistakes always have a bad effect on their life.

No, because nobody is flawless, I don't always hold others or myself responsible for my faults. When someone makes a mistake, I only ever react by being irritated at the exact time the error occurs.

The next thing I do after I've provoked someone is to implore them to continue living their lives. I do advise individuals to not allow their shortcomings define them.

Do you always blame people or yourself for making mistakes, as no one can be perfect?

I constantly blame myself and try to convince myself day and night that I should have listened to my parents, but I don't blame anyone else because it's solely my responsibility. I believe that if I listen to my family, I will be content with myself.

Every time I make a mistake in life, no matter how small, I accept responsibility for it, even when I believe it was someone else's fault. Why spend time blaming others or yourself for mistakes that you should learn from when you can just accept responsibility, learn from your mistakes, and move on? Instead of crying over mistakes, I channel that energy into making sure I don't make them again.

Share some tips for overcoming mistakes, both physically and virtually.

▪︎Recognize that learning from mistakes is a necessary component of improving, which is your ultimate aim. …

▪︎Find a solution to correct my error.

▪︎Give myself a break.

▪︎Give myself a chance to express your feelings and let off steam.

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