Greetings friends!
It is with joy that I present my application for the individual Challengers of the Engagement challenge season 20. I am glad this opportunity came and I'm privileged to apply. I hope to get a positive response and hope my Topics are appreciated.
My Steemit Experience and Journey |
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This journey of mine took off some years ago, and since then, I must confess that it has been so rosy. There are times I felt good and times I felt bad, but in all, I am grateful for my success on the platform.
It is of no doubt that my consistency and dedication have brought me this far, and it is all thanks to some of my mentors here. I have been able to grow my reputation and stem power, and it has given me a solid foundation to stand firm on this platform.
I have learned and unlearned so many things here, and today I beat my chest to my great achievements. Meeting amazing friends who have been a blessing to my life is something I won't forget in a hurry. To crown it all, my Steemit journey has been full of beautiful memories.
My Vital Statistics |
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| Username | @ninapenda |
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| Reputation | 74.159 |
| Steem Power | 8,950.59 SP |
| Club Status | Club5050 |
| Voting CSI | 14.4 ( 0.00 % self, 81 upvotes, 65 accounts, last 7d ) |
| Effective Power | 7,932.08SP |
| Delegation | 1,018.505 |
| Current Position held | Mod in steem4nigeria community and steemladies community |
My Real World Experience |
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I am a lady full of life who's got a talent in gastronomy. I am always interested in things about the kitchen because that is my center of excellence. I have a degree in Business Administration and have trained my self so much in business line so I get involved in genuine businesses offline and online to make a living.
My life experience has been a lesson for me to grow and understand life better. I am a preacher of love and I profess empathy in all areas of my life. "Where there is love, there is life" has been my most life experience and I'm glad that I'm able to love and give love.
My Six Weekly Challenge Topics |
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Week One
Four C's of Relationship
We live in challenging times, and we struggle to get fixed in our changing world. We go through UPs and downs of the world and the desire for social unity takes a deeper part of our well-being.
Despite all the uncertainties we've been through, however one thing still remains constant; "the desire for human connection." Now, let me introduce to you the four C's of Relationship;
Communication
Cooperation
Consideration
Compatibility
These four C's of Relationship explains how a loving and promising relationship should be and last for a lifetime.
Questions
• Give your opinion on this statement, "should the sharing of responsibilities in a relationship be considered?
• Does communication in a relationship implies perfection? Share your ideas.
• When can we say that the partners in a relationship are compatible?
• Is cooperation applicable during challenging times in a relationship? Give tangible facts
Week Two
Love Triangle 📐
In a world where most people are no longer concerned about others, they are so concerned about themselves and what they want to acquire for themselves, life have never been the same again without love and empathy for people around us.
Love Triangle describes and shows us the pattern for which love can be spread which is;
God, others and you
Questions
• Have you ever been in a situation where you have to put others first before yourself? Share the story with us.
• Are you for or against the motion "Love is selfless," give valid points.
• What do you understand by love your neighbor as yourself?
Week Three
Conflict in Relationships and Marriage
Marital and relationship conflict is not just their differences in opinions involved, it is far more than that. I would say that selfishness is the root of almost all conflicts in relationships. Both parties wants their own interests, forgetting the interest of another.
Conflict has destroyed homes and broken trust which has made most people hardened to love or build relationships.
Questions
• What are the best approaches to handle conflicts between two parties?
• Is divorced the final solution to handle conflict? Yes or No, state your reasons.
• Which gender nags the most in a relationship, leading to conflict?
• In your opinion, what do you think are the steps to recover after a conflict?
Week Four
The Love Languages
Love languages are the means of communicating love to people. You know, people don't believe only when you say the word "I love you" to them, they want to see actions or hear something convincing before they believe it's true.
We have five love Languages;
• Act of service
• Quality time
• Words of affirmation
• Physical touch
• Receiving gifts
Questions
• Among the five love Languages, which one makes you emotionally or physically safe?
• Share those steps needed to discover your love languages.
• Considering the five love Languages, which language were you most spoken while growing up?
• Share those beautiful things you appreciate about your relationship, either family,love or business relationships.
Week Five
When Love Hurts
You've probably heard a lot of people say that "love hurts", well it's so surprising how everybody believes one general notion, but could this be true?
"Love doesn't hurt you, but it is the person that doesn't know how to love that hurts you" which makes love innocent of all acquisitions.
Love is the most incredible thing in the world but when people betray our trust or lie to us, we blame love and become bitter, this act kills our love life.
Debate
Are you for or against the motion "that love hurts"? State your tangible reasons.
Week Six
Goals outside Relationship
"Sometimes you just detach to find yourself"
It's obvious that some of us are so deep in relationships that we forget our dreams, goals or aspirations. We are so overwhelmed in love that we forget so much of that person we ought to be in life.
It could be family, our love life, or friends but sometimes when we detach, we find our feet. It doesn't mean that you don't love them, it only shows that you also have a life to live.
Questions
• Have you experienced any situation where you detached from your relationship for personal achievement or share the story of family & friends who had such experience(s).
• How do you think we can create a balance between our relationship and personal goals?
In Conclusion |
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I remain sincerely grateful to the steemit team for this awesome opportunity and I hope to get a positive response in return.
My discord: Ninapenda
Telegram: @Ninapenda91
You are experienced both in life and on the steemit platform. Your topics are interesting.
Week 1: Writing about Communication, Cooperation, Consideration, and Compatibility is quite interesting, and users would want to share their thoughts on the topic; I can confidently say that engagement on the Topic would be high.
Week 2: Love triangle, very lovely, of course, the greatest commandment in life and the one that follows center on the Love triangle. We are to love God with our whole hearts, minds, and souls, and the next is love for our neighbors. One more thing, your question will trigger the engagement of the users.
Week 3: conflict in marriage and relationship is inevitable, but the manner of handling the conflicts matters. This week if approved would be quite interesting, we will get to know different practical approach to solving conflicts.
Week 4: the love languages, very interesting. I think reading different expression of love would make me show my wife love the more😄.
Week 5: would be quite interactive, since it would be a debate, people would stand for, or against the topic, I Feel this week would be the most engaged week if approved.
Week 6: it a beautiful topic to use conclude the challenge.
Conclusively, your topics are interesting, generally they are about relationship, and I feel opinions that would be shared would help revive some relationships to a healthy state. I wish you all the best in your application.
BEST REGARDS
@iddy
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I am just speechless @iddy. You warm my heart with you kind gesture. I am so grateful to you. Let's keep our fingers crossed that the result turns out positive.
I hope to see your participation, and to your wife, she doesn't know what's coming her way ... Thank you my friend!
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You are always welcome.
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Hola
Planteas un challenge hermoso, con mucho potencial para propiciar reflexiones y miradas a lo interno de cada paraticipante.
Te felicito por incluir a Dios dentro del trinagulo de relaciones, y el enfoque que das a las gesti{on de emociones potenciadoras el amor en en el lenguaje.
Y tocar la interrelaci{on con tu pareaj. Hermoso amiga.
Deseo éxito para ti y tu propuestaa.
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Thank you so much for the wishes
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You have choose a lovely and sensitive topic wish you success
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Thank you my friend!
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Congratulations!
Your post has been upvoted by @steemladies.
The community where the Steemian ladies can be free to express themselves, be creative, learn from each other, and give support to their fellow lady Steemians.
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Thank you so much
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💕
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Good to see your application my friend, I believe so many people will love the topics and I wish you good luck.
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Thank you
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Upvoted. Thank You for sending some of your rewards to @null. It will make Steem stronger.
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Muy prácticos los temas que propones. Las relaciones interpersonales es un tema extenso, pero muy necesario manejar. Será interesante leer las sugerencias que ofrecerás en tu curso.
Éxitos mi estimada Nina.
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Thank you so much. I am glad I've got your support.
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Your performances are outstanding have been in the system. Looking at the statistics and other related experiences, I could say that you contributions are visible and would do well if your application is granted.
I wish you success.
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I am so grateful for these kind words. Thank you so much!
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This is a baggage of love and affection. Intresting and can't wait to particpate in this flavor giving topics. Best of luck
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Thank you so much. I hope you get the chance to express yourself on the various topics.
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Helloo Dear @ninapenda
You have detailed the weekly topics of your experience, achievements and future challenges.
You have achieved success on the platform with your hard work and consistency. UpStem Four Nigeria and the Steam Ladies serve as moderators in the community.
You have submitted six weekly topics for the challenge, which discuss different aspects of relationships. Through these themes, she wants to give people an opportunity to reflect on the importance of relationships, love, and various aspects of life. And you have shared an excellent post I hope you get success here
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I hope so too. Thank you my friend!
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This is not only unique but one of a kind. You have continued to exemplary in this phase and I did know you will perform excellently innyour delivery if given a chane. Best of luck, good friend.
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Thank you so much Sir for your support.
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