Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 41: Navigating Through Conflicts

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The disagreement between two or more people over an issue is known as conflict. It can also be seen as a serious misunderstanding between in which people and countries that can result in violence.
Conflict is a very bad act, and I always stay away from any issues that will result in conflicts because I love minding my business and leaving a stress free life.

How do you manage to stay calm during an argument?

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This is a very interesting question. The situation of the country is enough reason for everyone to be sad because we are suffering a lot, and this cause disagreement everywhere, especially in the market, when bargaining for prices.

Whenever i am in an argument and I discover that the person is becoming more angry and serious, I will quickly withdraw from it because I don't want it to escalate into conflict.
They are some argument that even when I know that I am very correct, I will just allow the person to say whatever he or she want just to avoid problem.

I don't have a hot temperature, so I sometimes laugh over an argument so that they will be peaceful between us.

Why is it important to listen carefully during a disagreement?

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It is very important to listen carefully during an argument because sometimes it is just a minor misunderstanding that will lead to a big conflict that may take away life.

Always stay calm and reason very well before you act because anything that you do in anger, you will always regret it>

Sometimes we, when we don't listen carefully, we might end up hearing the wrong word, and it will make us angry, which will lead to a serious argument.
I have seen a situation whereby people fought for the wrong reason because one of the victims didn't listen well when they were arguing.

How does understanding someone else's feelings help in resolving conflicts?

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Just like my mother understands me very well whenever I am angry she will know ans she will just let me be, so when i am calm she will come back snd talk to me and I will listen to her.
When you understand a person very well, you will know what he likes and doesn't like and also what makes him angry so you will always try to avoid him in those situations.

You will agree with me that they are people that we understand very well and we are the only ones that knows how to stop then from engaging in conflict, when you understand someone you will be very free with him or her and it will help in strengthening your relationship and keep you safe from anything that will result in conflict.

What can we do to control our anger during an argument?

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The best thing to do to control our argument during argument is just to smile and allow the person to continue arguing alone when he discovered that i am no longer arguing with him, he will see himself like a fool.

Like me, even if I know that I am very correct in an argument but the person doesn't want to concur with it, I will just keep shut my mouth as if I don't know what i am saying.

I am inviting @esther123, @bessie2023, @owulama and @moyeon to participate.


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Wow that's awesome and amazing here
I've try my best to go through your post you have convince me through your write up and I understand about conflict and it's side effects thank you so much
Keep trying your best and you will become a winner one day

Thanks my friend for this comment of yours, i am glad you visited

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Thanks for the support @eseljose i really appreciate

I read through your post and I must say that it's impressive.... knowing that there are times you give up on arguments even when you are correct in order just to avoid conflicts shows that you a peaceful person, please keep it up👍

I want to appreciate you for inviting me to participate and just know that I have honored your invitation by participating too.

Best wishes✨🎉

Alright my friend am glad that you honoured my invite.
Wishing you success

Thank you very much

My pleasure

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