Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 41: Navigating Through Conflicts

Hello friends and family, greetings to you all, I hope you all are doing good, it's my pleasure to be here tonight, I will be participating in an Interesting contest titled "Navigating Through Conflicts" this was one of my interesting topic in school so far and I will really like to be part of it tonight, all thanks to "Steem For Nigeria" for organising this Amazing engagement challenge, without wasting our time let's start from here...

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Conflict simply refers to a disagreement between a person or group of people, this can simply be a fight, struggle or battling with each other, i have been observing this few things either in one way or the other, most expecially at the particular place that I'm living right now there are most of the people here that can not keep quiet till a one full day runs out without arguing over a particular thing which may sometimes leads to fight or battling with each other, conflict is one thing i don't like most in my life.

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I can manage to stay calm during an argument by simply taking a deep breath or pause the conversation so that it won't get me distracted at that particular time of argument, anyone can also avoid bringing up past resentment so that it won't gets me into argument or I make sure that I'm using a very calm and gentle voice so that I can avoid been distracted , and moreover argument is something that I don't like most in my life
at times I can simply look for some area's of agreement and find a compromise so that I can stay calm, I've come to the notice that staying calm during an argument requires an effective communication skills, this can simply makes the conversation between you and your partner to be more sensible so that it can makes anyone to stay calm during argument. Although I'm a person that normally gets angry at times and that is why I always try to lower my voice during discussion so that it won't leads me into argument.

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By understanding someone else feelings, anyone needs to create a more respectful resolution process which can simply leads to stronger relationships, I've also comes to the notice that when people heard very well and also understood, I think they will be more likely to express themselves openly and this can simply build trust and understanding between two partner's. I think by my own understanding it can simply helps the other person more likely to listen to your own point of view.

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The best thing for someone to do at that particular moment of disagreement, one needs to stay calm and relax his or her mind set so that he or she won't end up been confused by what the partner is saying. If I understand my partner's feelings very well it will also makes us to understanding each other very well and from there, it will make the conversation more meaning and by doing this it will easily get us out from having conflict and it will also help me very well to grow old and understand my partner's feeling.

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For us to control our anger during argument, anyone needs to require an
effective communication skills where by to avoid been confused by what your partner is talking about, At times I can simply try to take a deep breath so as to calm my system down so that I won't get angry easily, or I can also manage to calm down for a while before I can respond to my partner in which I was discussing with, I think this is another way to control our anger during an argument.

Remember that the goal of an argument was not to be win or loose, but to understand and find common experience, by doing so we all can build stronger and develop self awareness.

I will like to invite three of my friends to join this contest and to also share their thoughts.

@mesola
@Okere-blessing
@loolluv

Best regards ✅

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