Let's talk about love and money
Good day noble steemians, how was your day? Mine was fine and I hope yours was also fine. I wish to present my entry for this wonderful contest by @steem4nigeria, the contest is really a technical and matured one. Love and money have always played a very important role in so many relationships. Stay tuned as I present my entry to you guys.
Is there any relationship between the two concepts (Love & Money) in a relationship
Yes there is, love and money tend to be two of the most important things in a relationship, a relationship also needs trust but we are not here to talk about this but love and money instead. Love is something we cherish alot and is very important that relationship is made up of love. Another thing is money, this material thing tends to move a relationship to a place lovers don't expect.
Yes we need love to enjoy a relationship and most relationship is only made up of love, the lovers doesn't have money but few sets of lovers in this situation are ok with what they have while few are not. Money is what makes a relationship very enjoyable and modernized but most times the poor lover doesn't love the rich one as they are after their money.
Love and money really needs to be present in a relationship in other to make it an almost one, the reason I made use of the word almost I'd because no relationship is perfect.
Can true love exist or thrive for a long time without money?
Yes true love can really exist for a long time without money. I always see some ladies staying with a guy who doesn't have much money and they love these guys alot, despite the fact that they are poor young men, these ladies doesn't want to leave them but marry them.
Once I see things like this, it makes me realize that these ladies has hope for these guys, they have seen a vision that these guys will have lots of money someday, most especially when they have a skill. Once two people fall in love, they care about any other thing.
Do you subscribe to this school of thought? Back up your Yes/No answer with valid points
Yes I do subscribe to the school of thought and my reason for this is that there will be an extent the relationship will reach and the ladies most times will begin to feel uncomfortable with the relationship, once they have waited for years for their boyfriend to be rich and there's no sign of him getting rich, their love begin to die gradually.
The guys themselves will begin to live in fear because they know that their babe will leave them if s richer guy proposes to them and who doesn't like better things? Am single and yes am quite supposed to be single but most of my mates and juniors have been in a relationship. Is not that am ugly or arrogant, but I need money first so that my girlfriend and I can always be happy at least.
Most times I even tell myself this as well Kelvin no money, no girlfriend. The reason I do so is that my mentality believes in making money before thinking of having a lover. I do so beautiful girls everywhere and I admire them alot but I won't be comfortable if I begin to date when am quite poor 😜.
Share an experience for or against the statement.
I remember when my friend's elder brother had a very beautiful but arrogant girlfriend, he has alot of money before but it didn't took long when the money got finished as he was spending it anyhow and he used his last card to pay for his grandmother's hospital bills which he never bargained for.
Assuming he didn't squandered the other money he had, he would have still have money after helping his grandmother. His girlfriend began to give him unnecessary attitude, most times they will be insulting themselves in the presence of my friend and I. The girl finally left the guy and he was very heartbroken as he began to hustle afresh in other to be rich again, he really learnt a big lesson. Thanks for reading.
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the relationship between love and money. It's true that both are important but genuine love can indeed exist without wealth.Your friend brother's experience is a valuable lesson about financial responsibility in relationships.It is important to balance both love and financial stability.
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You contribution is awesome, you know we all see from different perspective, you have just share yours with us. I wish you the very best.
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