Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 80: ...When you're not loved in return.

Greetings Everyone, This is SHOHANA From #Bangladesh

One sided effort hardly last for long and it is same for love. Mutual efforts make things long lasting and it is also for long lasting relationship. Honestly I only watch real lovers in movies and dramas, never saw in real life.

In real life I saw cheating partners without any guilt, make fake promises to impress someone to use or better I say misuse. Real love is rare and real lover too!

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Today my discussion topic is When you're not loved in return. If I'm not loved in return then I'll definitely leave because when it comes to self respect we can't keep continue loving someone who can't love in return.

If some says they love without expecting love then it will be the biggest lie he ever told. So better we accept the reality and stay honest about our feelings and thoughts.

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What do you understand by the concept "Love".

Love is a beautiful feeling when we are in love with the right person not in love with the red flag. A right person will give you the beautiful and right concept of love. The effort of both side should be equal in love and that will give them reason for the forever stay together. Love for me is holding hands tight when things are going against two people in real love.

Have you been expressing love? If yes, how have you been doing that.

Love is not always about saying that I love you. When I was in love I couldn't express through words all the time but I was loyal, honest, dedicated and helpful to the person I loved. But I was cheated and trust wrong guy who had no guts to hold my hand tight when things were going against our love or relationship. So I became fool in love and fall for red flag. Now it feel worse.

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How did you respond to those who are not/did not respond back to you with the same energy you're giving out as love.

Well I took time to leave but I'll definitely leave sooner or later. A person who loves will definitely show some efforts instead telling sweet words to impress me and holding me to time pass. A person in real love will definitely respond back to me with the same energy or guts but expecting it from wrong person really hurts.

Did their attitude discourage you from being that loving person that you are?

Yes definitely the attitude discourage me and I stop expecting anything or any kind of love from that person. My love can't be on sided love. If a person can't give mutual effort then better we leave the person and try to move forward. Expecting love from gutless person is a big mistake and a lesson too for the lifetime.

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