Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 41: Navigating Through Conflicts

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Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 41: Navigating Through Conflicts By @steem4nigeria in Steem4Nigeria

How do you manage to stay calm during an argument?

As far as I am concerned, I believe in avoiding unpleasant situations of any debate, I have noticed that whenever you press to join the debate on any controversial topic out of emotion or anger or the situation is in your favor. In the absence of this, the risk of uncontrolled communication coming out of your mouth increases.

That is why I believe that in such situations we should remain emotionless or even if we have to protest, we should do it in such a way that it does not appear like sarcasm or criticism. We should follow the middle path. We should keep our inciting thoughts under control, and always understand the state of mind of the other person.

Why is it important to listen carefully during a disagreement?

I think it is more important to be a good listener than to be a good listener. In any dispute, even if you disagree with the subject, first of all we should listen to the statement of the opposition with full attention and our mental strength. It is possible that we Under some preconceived notion, we start contradicting him and later find out that the person was right and we were completely or partially wrong.

And this will also give complete information about the inner thoughts of the other person, and we will get a strong opportunity to understand his mentality in the upcoming debates or situations.

How does understanding someone else's feelings help in resolving conflicts?

As I have written above, if we listen to the feelings of any party carefully, cautiously, and patiently, then the anger inside him will definitely go away, and he will feel a satisfaction.

And if we interrupt his conversation, he will feel that he does not want to listen to me, and he will become adamant in getting his point accepted. On the contrary, if we listen to him carefully and then carefully understand the pros and cons of his words, then he will also be forced to think.

And in this way many conflicts can be resolved. Police and administrative officers are specially trained for this very thing in crowd control.

What can we do to control our anger during an argument?

It is very important that during the debate we should keep our anger under control, for this we have to keep our senses balanced, try to smile without any reason, try to calm down the other person instead of proving him wrong. . We have to give up our false ego.

We have to put ourselves in his place and talk to him. We have to participate in the conversation thinking that we are listening to his words without interrupting him. His curiosity has to be quenched, his anger has to be quenched, his ego has to be quenched.

And in this way we will be able to calm our own anger. It is also important to try to change the topic in between to make the topic interesting. By giving false praise to that person, water can be added to the fire of the matter.

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