Hello Friends,
Every parent wants their child to be well educated. It can be said without any doubt that every parent makes every effort for the good education of the child. But still we think about the child, or the child's future, sometimes we express frustration, but why? Where are the problems, why do we fail to solve them?
In fact, in some cases there is a gap in our efforts regarding the child, maybe sometimes we understand it, sometimes it is too late when we understand. Because one thing is eternally true, the real education of a child comes from his family or parents. So how the child will be, how it will be used, it all depends on the behavior of the child's parents. And our gap is made from here.
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Because in my view technology may have made our lives enjoyable, made many of our tasks easier, but it has actually kept us more busy, which is why we are failing to have our children with them at the right time, which is why between children and parents. There is a gap, the effect of which is going on between them. It should not be forgotten that the first responsibility for the well-being of a child rests with his parents. Because in some cases children receive behavioral education from their parents for genetic reasons.
However, I will try to discuss the gap another day. Today I will try to share something different. That is, we should be careful about the child's well-being or proper behavior. Because the education that I will give them at this time, they will keep it for the rest of their lives, so we have to try all the time so that they can receive the right education. Yes, it is true that raising a child properly is not an easy task. And in this case, if we make any kind of mistake, its effect can bring something bad for them in the future.
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The first thing I want to point out is that there is a bad tradition in our society, and that is that we always try to impose our authority on the child, which has a bad effect on their mental growth. In fact when we impose our decisions on them in some matters, their mental growth is hampered and in some cases a line of their limitations is formed, due to which they are not interested in crossing that line later on.
But if we try to get them interested in making decisions on certain issues, if we give them a chance to express their own opinions and if that opinion is not good, if we are able to explain it correctly, then of course there will be no limitations between them.
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The second thing I would like to mention is that from an early age, in some cases, we have contributed a lot to creating their wrong mentality. For example, when they become more interested in certain things and some compete with their classmates, in many cases even if they do not do well, we try to make our child a winner by adopting a different approach. Because we think that if we can make him a winner, he will become more interested.
But this is where we teach them a mistake, because we try to make them winners even though they don't have the qualifications, because of which the issue of qualification is not important among them, but the interest to be victorious is created. So here we are taking their interest in a different direction, which is not good for their future at all.
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I hope that if we pay attention to the above two issues in giving proper education to our children, if we care a little more about their proper behavior, then of course they will be as good at teaching and good behavior as our thoughts will be removed. You can also express your opinion if you want, you can share if you have something different.
Thanks all for understanding my writing.
আমি মোঃ হাফিজ উল্লাহ, চাকুরীজীবী। বাংলাদেশী হিসেবে পরিচয় দিতে গর্ববোধ করি। বাঙালী সংস্কৃতি ও ঐতিহ্য লালন করি। ব্যক্তি স্বাধীনতাকে সমর্থন করি, তবে সর্বদা নিজেকে ব্যতিক্রমধর্মী হিসেবে উপস্থাপন করতে পছন্দ করি। পড়তে, শুনতে এবং লিখতে ভালোবাসি। নিজের মত প্রকাশের এবং অন্যের মতামতকে মূল্যায়নের চেষ্টা করি। ব্যক্তি হিসেবে অলস এবং ভ্রমন প্রিয়।
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