It's is a big question that you are raising up. People are so complex. One might say that you are not following the social behavior codes of the place you live in. However, I am sure you can see people around you that do not follow these codes either, yet are likable and popular. If I had to guess what makes someone likable by others is the added value he gives to them. People want to get something from their relationships. Maybe your should think what are you offering the people around you? For example, Do you make them laugh? Are you listening? Are you giving them a different perspective of life? Do you make them feel loved?
Let me know know what do you think :)
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Valid point. You don't have to be like everyone else to be happy. However, not being able to maintain a steady relationship does put some question marks on your character. Even introvert tends to maintain a close and steady relationship with people they fancy. So it's dicey.
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I have friends that I value their contribution to my life and I am willing to go an extra mile to see them (figuratively and literally :) If I hadn't done it I don't know if these relationships would last.
Also putting aside your Ego can help maintain a relationship...
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