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Today is a special day, we celebrate Mother's Day wonderful beings who guide us throughout the journey of our lives.
This year in particular was a different day because due to the quarantine many of us spent the day at a distance from our loved ones. Although every day is Mother's Day it is not bad that the calendar registers a day of celebration for it.
Adult training is directly related to the lessons and morale received in childhood, both by parents, school, friends and the society in which they live. Of course, when it comes to human development, this topic is never and will never be exact science. The child can receive everything recommended by the best educators in the world and end up getting lost in life.
It is necessary to emphasize that when speaking of actions to guide human behavior, the discussion speaks of possibilities, not precision.
A figure that is essential for a happier life is the positive presence of the mother. Not all maternal presence is positive. Since, unfortunately, we see news of mothers mistreating their children, this is a type of influence that adds nothing to the child.
Although this news is not rare, it is far from being the majority in the maternal relationship. Even for biological reasons, the mother prioritizes the lives of her own children instead of hers, doing what is possible and what is impossible for the happiness of her children.
The child is generated within the woman, therefore, even before the notion of her own existence, the mother has always cared for and loved her. He is the first person to teach the child the meaning of love. Many, when they reach adulthood, even believe that the only true love experience in life is that of a mother. "Love is only for the mother," says a popular phrase of human wisdom, which has a very true part.
In the same way that the mother has the task of loving, practically in equal proportions, she has the duty to educate. Loving is much easier than educating. Saying "no" and correcting children's wrong things is not easy. Sometimes it is necessary to correct it and children may not accept this attitude, but they are not concerned: any action that aims to educate the child's behavior, even if it is painful in the present, will bring great rewards in the future.
The mother loves her children, regardless of whether they are biological or not. It can be the grandmother, an aunt, an adoptive mother and even, in a way, a father, when he has the obligation to take care of the child alone and ends up accumulating the role of father and mother in himself. Being a mother is, above all, being the first contact of love in a life that comes to Earth.
