Hello friends today in my entry we will be discussing on how to deal with people who speaks ill of you behind your back.
This is a normal case scenario as long as life is concerned, no matter what they must always be that one person that will like to talk about you in your back (gossips)
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If you happen to find yourself in this kind of situation trust me there's no point trying to ignore the person and also there's no point trying to confront them about what they said about you
So in this case how to deal with this kind of people who talk ill behind your back isn't anything special rather all you need to do is first understand the fact that in a group of people there's always individual differences.
So the thing is that people will always talk no matter what, so it's better you;
- Ignore and pay a deaf ear
- Cut close ties with such friends
- Try advising them in a friendly manner
Now if you try to follow the above three mentioned, you will be able to easily deal with such a friend without having to keep malice with them
If you heard some ill vices your friend said about you all you need to do is just pretend you didn't hear anything because some might be true while some isn't.
And also if you happen to find yourself associating with such guys please just try as much as you can to distance yourself from them because there's a saying "Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are"
And lastly advising them as a friend would also be nice and note at this point do it as a friend politely and in a nice way but still try maintaining your friendship.