Once again I am participating in contest by @boylikegirl.club the topic is awesome and different to write. Just not like engagement challenges it's more better and easy to do. Nowadays challenges are difficult and harden for common people. Let's hope something good next time.
Coming to topic what I think and how I deal with the kind of people who speak Ill and bad of me behind of me. It's little simple that's why I uploaded a photo relating with the graveyard. That I always remember I have to go to graveyard and maybe the one who is talking bad about me have forgotten that he will also be going to graveyard and then we will see what we have done.
If we don't know each other and he do talk bad of me behind me it's on him and no anger I feel because I don't know who did this and who is he. But if someone is relative and doing this I try to keep him on the right track with goodness.
Because he is now forgot but slowly he will remember that he have to die and all have to die. There is nothing doing such stuff. So I try for himself to keep him on track of I found someone relative doing this.
I have my rule that is if someone's talking bad of someone behind him that means he is bad himself. That's my rule and not apply on all but most of people.
The people who do speak bad about the others behind them, should must think the time they are wasting by doing this all. They are not getting paid, nor they are getting any kind of other benefits. So why this all, it's just because of our inner badness, to let the badness happy the people does this.
If also there is something they are getting in return they don't have to do this bad thing at that time too. Because the benefits are limited and the communication and relationship between the other person, which can be go up and which can be go in good way will easily get ruined.
If also the benefits are limitless they don't have to do this bad thing either. Because this bad habit is the one of cause of the fights between people.
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