First of all, I'm against playing hide and seek in a relationship. Hiding financial status or anything that can hurt a partner later should expose at the beginning of a relationship. A loyal partner must bring reality and always believe in himself. Personally, I have no problem accepting a lover with his poor financial status but I have objection on hiding it for a long time.
Our birth is not on our hand so we can born in a poor family but we should have respect on our family and parent even they can be poor. If we born poor that is not our fault but if we remain poor for doing no hard work and giving no effort to improve financial status or condition then it can be a matter of rethinking.
An idle person doesn't deserve a good life with a good life partner, working hard bring respect and love and it is same about me. If I don't work for making money and depending on others for living that will make me feel down because I have qualities to work hard and make money then why I seat idle? A person with self respect can expect a partner who has self respect too.
Poverty is not a shame but begging is shameful. If a partner's family is poor but they are honest and hardworking then it is their luck that they are struggling against poverty but couldn't yet overcome. Hiding poverty sounds dishonesty and this kind of dishonesty is unacceptable for any partner. Be you and be brave enough to accept yourself. There is no point to feel ashamed on personal financial crisis because it can be changed by doing hard work but dishonesty is a quality that hardly can be change.
According to my personal thoughts, I will definitely accept my lover with poverty but not a lover with dishonesty. Hiding financial status to be in a relationship is a kind of cheating and no one will accept a cheater in life. If the lover feel shy or ashamed for being poor then he can feel the same if his partner will have any lacking or disability. No one is perfect but I never ever support hiding things in a relationship that should be exposed at the very beginning of it.
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