People are used to live thinking that we are the owners of everything, that every thing, circumstance or person or being that surrounds us is our property and so we start a life based on attachments, that is to say, on the need for everything to be under our control and dominion. But, when something that we thought was ours goes away or simply things happen that do not depend on us and we cannot control, our problems begin and end up making us fall into depression, anxiety, as well as other darker and harmful feelings and actions.

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A life without attachments is not about walking around as if nothing matters to us or treating people as if they were disposable, no, nothing could be further from the philosophy of living without attachments. A life without attachments means to understand that every moment of our existence has a reason to be, that every person that comes into our life can stay for a long time or just for a moment, in this case it is all about learning and the mission of life that he/she has in ours. A life without attachments is to have the certainty that I cannot control everything and that there are events that mark a before and an after in my history.

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A life without attachments is to be able to enjoy and savor each moment with the value and meaning it has, hoping it will always leave me with a learning experience and a beautiful memory. A life without attachments is to give the best of myself in every step I take, is to move forward in the most difficult situations, is to transform sadness into strength and failures in the engine of a greater effort. A life without attachments is to have the certainty that we have come to this world in passing, that we are here to fulfill a mission and especially to be happy in this here and now. A life without attachments is constant gratitude for the good and especially for the bad that makes me grow and love what stays with me to make me well.