Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple

in hive-153970 •  2 years ago 

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Hello incredible friends of Betterlife Community, I humbly welcome you to a new day. I do love to starting sharing you my participation to this contest topic, and would love us read, learning never ends, we could learn together.



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Is Your Current Partner Your Choice And Ideal Partner? How Did You Struggle to get it? Tell Us About Your heroic Struggle.

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Well?? I do not have a partner yet who I have right in my life now is my boyfriend who tend to have interest in marriage. I have watched and observe, knowing fully well what kind of Man I asked God to storm my way, he definitely has the features just that the state I wanted wasn't the same. And so am proud to say, he is my idea kind of partner I would love to have as my husband.

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Well? I met him at a choir rehearsal he hosted, that was how we met and ever since then, he have been on my neck. And by the time I calmed down and study the kind of person he is. I noticed he was my ideal kind of partner I do love to have in my life and so I gave him a chance to be my hero. I didn't really struggle to have him, I just had to cooperate and pray about it.

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My heroic Struggle is this, he doesn't have the full power to conquer his fellow guy in the outside world. He is brave, with well compatible behavior but he doesn't let him and his fellow guys have issues that can result to fight.


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What Are The Obstacles You Faced When You Wanted To Get Married, Or Why Haven't You Gotten Married Yet?

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I haven't gotten married yet because I have ambitions I want to actualize first. It might not be the boss lady's kind of growth but at least let my man have respect for me and not take me as a sit and chop woman (liability).

Like I have been thought, marriage is like an everlasting examination you keep taking every new day with your partner. It involves tolerance, trust, love and patience, it's an unending relationship that lasts for as long as the both lives. Boyfriend, girlfriend relationship can have misunderstanding and break up but marriage subdues and conquer with the substance they have built together with.

After I have know the intentions of my future partner as time goes on, it will determine if am getting married sooner after my self growth.

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What Are The Criteria For Your Ideal Partner?

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My ideal partner is a very jovial and easy going person, he does his things with calculations. He's too emotional and could be hurt at anytime, he doesn't have or bears grudges in his mind. He tells you as it is for him and let's you to either accept it or leave it.

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It becomes a big challenge for him if you refuse to let him know what your worries are. I love him and also he's a sanguine kind of fellow.

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Do You Prioritize Beauty Or Comfort In Communication? Why?

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I will say the both are really Good, because when it comes to being cute, he is and I can be very comfortable and free with him as much as i can. I prefer the comfort in communication because even when you're bored, you will like him or her to gist you and you do be comfortable with every bit of his talk.

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And then assuming you have a boring type of person, you will always want to force yourself to say something when you don't even know what to say, would you just be watching beauty in boredom? So I do prefer the comfort in communication to the beauty.

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What Is Your Measure Of Happiness When You Get Married?

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When I will marry, I wish to have more happiness, comfortability and peace of mind. A happy marriage doesn't last Long, it might lead to disagreement then to divorce. I seek to obtain happiness in all round ramifications of my marital life. Because when happiness is there, it defeats every other hinderances that storms into the marriage.

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What Do You Think About Early Marriage Or Older Marriage?

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I would prefer the early marriage if you ask me because when you marry early, then you bear children, even when they are grown, you will still look younger and capable to handle some of their needs. Early marriage is good, because even when old age come, your children mist have made it in life and help you out financially and otherwise you seek for.

I don't condemn older marriage either, some persons have got their reasons why they marry late or early. But most times why late marriage is dangerous is this, some of them might not live long enough to bear children and take care of them, while some persons, it becomes stressful trying to raise their kids because they didn't start up early.

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Conclusion

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&As I draw the curtain down, I will conclude with this; Having a partner in your life when you're up to the stage is very important because they are some things you can't handle alone, but just have to share to your partner, inorder for the problem to get half solved or fully solved. Bet me, even family can't be able to help you out with that challenge you did be facing but your partner could (eg Emotional struggle). For this is all I can say, till I see you again in the upper week, remain blessed and stay safe!._

I wish to invite @simonnwigwe @hannybanny and @yakspeace to this incredible contest, come on board guys and join.

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@steembetterlife

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