Month of Love 💕💕

I woke up this morning moody but then I check up to motivate myself and read some scriptures for the day. And boom I found out todays date, it is a remarkable day of my life. The day I legally signed my marriage documents, I sworn an oat in the court to love and live forever with a handsome young man, the love of my youth.

As I found this out, I quickly use my research guide to read on the topic marriage. I read on different marriage topics and also some qualities I need to increase my development in making my marriage bond grow stronger as a wife.

There is different between marriage and wedding, marriage is actually a reality of wedding. The originator of marriage want everyone to be successful in their marriage. I choose the topic Making marriages successful and read on it.

So many things on the topics were not new to me but rather a reminder to me. I understand marriage to some point depending on my years of experience.

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Lessons learned today

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From the article, I learned that I should be willing to welcome and address the different tribulations in the flesh that will show up in my marriage. I've always been prepared to face them, and ofcourse I've been successful for some years now.

I was also reminded of adjusting my schedule to take care of my responsibility as a wife and to support my husband. Resolving issues at home as soon as possible and adhering to the guidelines provided in the holy book. Effective use of communication was also analysed on the article and suggested topics to start conversation with such as;

• How was your day?

• Thank you for making my day successful..

• With your help I was able to meet my target for the month, I appreciate your support thank you..

• Thank you for assisting me...

• This food is so tasty, I like it

• Have you noticed the weather today?

• I experience something remarkable on my way to work today..

• I was able to do everything successful today to meet up with my schedule at work.

Etc.

Cultivating of true love, develop humility and treat each other with respect. I was also reminded that Pride in marriage can be so dangerous as it won't allow each mate to courageously acknowledge his or her fault then apologize but rather it will make the gives excuses and find fault. And I'm always very willing to apologize so we can be peaceful.

Finally, I should strengthen my marriage bond by increasing the love I have for my husband, freely forgiving, avoid hurting feelings, and remaining submissive doing this will bring peace, joy and unity to the family.

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People's view of marriage

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Many people think that marriage is a contract, after some years you move to another marriage. Like I always say, love is a beautiful thing, staying in love is the most beautiful thing one can see

It therefore means, you need to be rebranding your love on daily basis, appreciate your loved one, show practically that you loved him or her.

Personally, I like giving of gift, singing, texting, cooking and ofcourse do things together etc.

Forever is a very long time, and one need to let love take the lead.

To my lovely husband, thank you for choosing me, I love you to the moon and back. We are in this together and we have forever years to be together. Thank you for staying true for 3 years nows despite all challenges, we will run our race to the finish.

Thank you for reading through my post💕💕💕