In human life, friendship is vital. A genuine friend, however, maintains their objectivity. I grew up with two mates. I have always told them both happy and sad stories. However, I never imagined that our relationship would be ruined in such a way.
My two pals' names are Zaheer and Azharul. When I was at home, I used to spend a lot of time with them, but I was never able to understand their thoughts. because I didn't notice any changes in them. After I come out, my friend Zaheer always speaks with me. Azarul used to be quite reserved around me because he had recently started a family. I recognize that life with the family can get hectic at times.
I asked Zaheer what he was doing one evening while we were chatting. He then informed me that I was sitting at home. I asked why, to which Zaheer replied, "I'm sitting this way." Could you please explain what's wrong? Zaheer then said, "Hey, I don't have work, so I'm not going to the market because I have a small money problem." I went on to say that nobody goes to the market and sits because of this issue. Then Zaheer said, "Hey, you need to do something." Let me see what I can do.
Honestly, I didn't say anything because I still had 15 days to get paid. After I got paid, I figured I would give him some cash. When Azharul contacted me two days later and asked me to say something, I replied without hesitation. Could you just give me some cash, friend? Then, I was honest when I said, "Look, I haven't gotten paid yet. Moneylenders don't always send money overseas." Our salary is still going to be delayed by 13 days.
He then informed me that my daughter's health was very poor, which made me feel a little horrible. because I wanted his daughter to remain at home. Thus, I instructed Azarul to visit the market and have a conversation with the moneylender of the Bikash store. Azarul went to Bikash's store and gave me the phone. I told the store's moneylender, "Brother, I'm kind of in a bind." I won't get paid for ten or twelve days. You are welcome to offer me some cash. When he asked how much, I replied, "Four thousand taka." Then, since we made a transaction with him, he paid the money right away.
I said to my friend Azharul, "Take two thousand taka from here, and give two thousand taka to Zaheer." After that, Azharul told me, "Okay, no problem. I'll take the money and go home." I then said, "Okay, no problem. Go ahead and find out whether the girl is cured." During our conversation the following day, I informed Zaheer that Azharul had provided the funds. I believed there was not a problem. Zaheer and I had a conversation. Zaheer told me one day, "Friend, I will tell you something," after we had been conversing in this manner for a while. Tell me, I said thereafter.
Then Zaheer informed me that Azharul had taken out a 1000 rupee loan from me. but failing to give him the cash or running into him in the marketplace. Azarul could have notified me if he wanted more money, I reasoned to myself. This is not beneficial. Taking money from someone I handed it to seems bad.
I told Zaheer, "Look, I gave you and Azarul money." You steal from him if you lend to him. I was giving you some assistance because you were in danger. Tell me how I can request this money now. You should steal money from my friend since he is my friend and I am no longer able to beg for money.
After that, Zaheer spoke with me frequently and continues to do so. However, Azharul never felt the need to inform me of his daughter's state. Additionally, he doesn't pick up when I call. He gave me another call after a few days to see how I was doing. I called him numerous times and he never once answered, which made me feel as if I was not in this world.
I then feel terrible telling Azharul that I won't be calling them friends or saying anything else. able to discuss all issues, but unable to determine whether or not his problem has been resolved. After two days, we have another conversation, but he still wants money from me. I went on to say, At this point, payment is not possible." He never gave me another call after that day till now.
I hung up the phone, indicating that I couldn't pay the money, realizing that this couldn't be my dear friend because of our disparate interests. However, Zaheer and I still don't communicate. Zaheer immediately asked to return the money. I told him, "You are my friend; I gave you the money because you had a problem." How am I going to acquire the money? To be honest, no one who truly loves us ever wants to show their affection with money.
One cannot purchase a good connection, love, or friendship with money. Although it takes some time to treat people nicely, relationships with individuals endure a lifetime. However, a relationship is truly destroyed when money is involved. Although everything is good where we live in the other country, we are unable to regularly send money home. We send all the money home on that day since we have one. We depart with money to support ourselves.
While the word "friend" itself is modest, the responsibility of a friend is enormous. Because a friend sticks by their friend, having a selfish relationship is unhealthy. Speaking with Zaheer yesterday was emotional since I handed him another 1000 rupees. I am therefore sharing a few items from that period. A man is capable of acting in that way out of self-interest. Our 22-year romance was ruined in a single day.