How positive is positive parenting?@oishymaria

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Assalamu Alaikum

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I am Maria Oishy. I use the username @oishymaria on Steemit.
I am from #Bangladesh 🇧🇩 among you.


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💕Deep love of father and son.💕


Bengalis are often dismayed to witness the warm rapport that Western youngsters have with their parents. The mother in subcontinental culture is the ultimate example of a selfless lady, whereas the father is portrayed as an intimidating, short-fused figure. Everyone in a Bengali family is rarely on the same level, although it has occurred. However, things are changing. Yes, in an excellent manner. Still, there are times when "positive parenting" can have effects that were not meant. Parenting that is too strict could hurt both the parents and the children.


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🌧️ Boy with father enjoying wearing rain 🌧️


Treat your kids nicely to succeed. How well children get along with their parents, understand each other, and other variables impact their self-confidence and willingness to make friends. Today's parents communicate with their kids without screaming or scaring them. This material discusses how difficult parenting is and how it impacts a child's life.


🍁Failure in the child's own life🍁

Personal failure in the child's life Positive parenting occasionally fails to establish limits. Sometimes, parents become so preoccupied with continuously encouraging their children that they forget they will not live eternally. Significant issues might arise in adulthood if children do not have an awareness of their own limitations and the consequences of their actions throughout childhood. Humans are never above errors. Parents' sole responsibility is to educate their children to acknowledge their errors and embrace failure from a young age.


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♥️My little prince is playing with his cousins♥️


A parent's view is so soft that they never express anger, anxiety, melancholy, etc., in front of their children, but instead, always smile. They believe that expressing negative emotions may not be beneficial for their offspring. This should be different from the situation. An open discussion of negative experiences, failures, errors, etc., in children's lives teaches them a vital lesson; life is a succession of successes and failures for everyone. Parents' errors, weaknesses, difficulties, pains, regrets, and melancholy teach children about the entirety of life. Unknowingly, they gradually attempt to comprehend the complete scope of their life's responsibilities.


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📖Brothers and sister are trying to learn something new📖


Consequently, he must confront a variety of direct and indirect experiences. If the child is very young, parents should not exhibit negative emotions in front of him with too much intensity. As he ages, he should not maintain a childlike disposition of tenderness and affection because otherwise, he will lose touch with the realities of the world. It should also be noted that, due to depletion, married women who devote themselves entirely to their families experience extreme dissatisfaction in their personal lives. In the research lexicon, this duty of mothers is known as invisible labor. In some instances, positive parenting can have highly adverse outcomes for the child and the mother.


👪Parental care👪

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😊Father and son are having a fun time😊


Parenting influences numerous facets of a parent's existence. Culture, employment, financial stability, mental stress, and discontent make positive parenting difficult. In addition, it becomes challenging for parents to uphold a healthy, decent, dependable, and cordial relationship with their kids when several unfavorable events occur. It becomes a burden when parents are often reminded of their mistakes in the name of good parenting. In other words, good parenting can harm parents in some situations.


💞Constant praise💞

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🌎Dad is his world to him🌎


There was once a time when authoritative parenting was widespread. Thus, parental control over their offspring has always existed. Children mature as a result of counsel, commands, prohibitions, etc. Next, we have Permissive Parenting. This parenting style is trendy, but it also has some disadvantages. Unrestrained encouragement of boys and girls in all endeavors becomes a scourge for them. Extreme praise makes a child extremely susceptible to criticism.


Where naturally not everyone will be his well-wishers. He goes through many trials as he grows up, and is continually confronted with reminders of his shortcomings. Boys who grow up receiving excessive praise from their parents often find it difficult to adjust to adult life. What therefore, is the solution? Are authoritative and permissive parenting incompatible?


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👥He imitates what his father does👥


According to studies, it can help if a youngster receives four times as many positive remarks as negative ones regarding their blunders. Please remember that all comments, good or bad, must make sense. In other words, the youngster should be given suitable comments when complimented, especially if he truly deserves recognition. The same applies to criticisms. He should be offered constructive criticism not as punishment but to help him learn from his errors. When a child's emotional development is at its peak, they must get more compliments than criticism.


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💕little prince loved by his parents💕


Every parent has the same hope for their child: a bright and prosperous future. Some parents are so soft on their children that they never discipline them for anything and instead view their child's every action through rose-colored glasses. However, some parents restrict their children's freedoms. In terms of ideology, both parties are extreme. Extreme optimism and pessimism, respectively, are counterproductive to human flourishing.

A youngster showered with positive emotions (affection, care, hugs, encouragement, love) grows up to be honest, gregarious, and secure in their identity. However, the negative emotions (ruling, scolding, reprimanding) help develop his cognitive abilities (reasoning, planning, and anticipating). Permit each kid, with their parents' direction, to develop into a responsible adult.


Goodbye for today; thanks for reading, stay safe, hope all of you are well.


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Thanks for reading my post and upvoting

My daughter is becoming 23 this year , try to spend as many time You can with Your child , höhö , they are growing like , ähh , fast .

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Yes, he is growing up very fast mashallah I try to give him more time.

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