Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple

Hi all steemian friends, greetings from me all for those of you who are here, and especially those who read my post, this time I will make a Steemit S9-W1 Engagement Challenge with a theme raised by the community STEEM FOR BETTERLIFE namely dream partner.

Before heading to some of the questions that will be asked later by the community, what do you mean by dream couple? Talking about mate surely no one knows right? because all of that is a secret from ALLAH SWT for us, but there is one word that still sticks in me, and I make it as my principle, that is a mate is a reflection of ourselves, so if you want to have a good dream partner, then try from now on to change yourself for the better in the future.

From the time I knew her until now, I can probably say her character and character as someone I would invite to live with, and right now I'm still single, and I have a girl whose character is very good, although in the future we won't know he is our partner or not, all of that has been arranged by the almighty.

Talking about the struggle, I may be very sad to tell you, starting to know him from social media from an Instagram application until I found his WhatsApp number hehe, from that I started approaching him for about 1 year and 2 months, I was only able to find his heart, and now we are both still in status. taa'rufan if in Islam, it is still in the process of being made a life partner in the future, hopefully our relationship will go down the aisle later.

The reason I am not yet married, maybe at a young age, and still pursuing my goals first, is because at this time I am still a student at Al-Aziziyah Samalanga University, maybe that's why I am not ready to get married, and neither is my partner. This is a student from Maleikussaleh Lhoksemawe University, still struggling to pursue their goals first.

Talking about marriage at an easy age and still having student status, marriage is a process that should be a once-in-a-lifetime bond, therefore, it's better not to be too hasty in asking to get married, even though there is already a fortune regulate, however, economic problems in the family are a very big problem, because of all these things it can add to even bigger problems later, and if you already have children, it will have an impact on the child's mental health, so it will be very dangerous, if for I'm waiting to be established before getting married.

For now I choose a partner according to the criteria in Islam, the first thing we have to look at is his religion, where he comes from, face from this we can see it with pleasure, wealth, offspring, that's me from me according to literalism in Islam.

For me, comfort is more prioritized than beauty, why is it beautiful if comfort is not there, but if our comfort with our partner is there, from there we can create a communication in a relationship, especially now that communication is very easy for us, namely a gadget with using via whatsapp for example, from there we can communicate more easily with our partners.

A marriage may be to create a generation in the future from our partner or offspring, from that we can illustrate that this marriage needs offspring so that happiness is created from it, by building a small house with my wife and children it is quite happy, when we seeing our children and wives happy.

If we look at it, the most ideal age for marriage is to follow the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW, that is, when he is 25 years old, sometimes we see that early marriage can destroy a household, because the attitude of a husband or wife cannot arranged together, dati I prefer a more northern marriage, at most over 25 years of age.

That's all my discussion for the SEC S9 W1 Contest, and I also want to invite @afdhal23 , @ikmalhariamuna @rahmat31 and @ikhwan to take part in this edition of the extraordinary advertising contest.