A friend told me something two days ago.
She is the owner of a small clothing shop, with a little girl as a clerk.
The little girl was smart and talkative, and she was a good clothes seller.
You know, such small clothing stores generally have higher prices and there is room for haggling.
Sometimes the female boss is not there, so she gives the little girl a spare price, so that she can be flexible before the price and reserve price, making it easier to deal with customers.
The little girl has been doing it for more than a year, and she is very good in all aspects, but whenever the owner leaves, her clothes are often sold at the lowest price.
The boss lady was a little suspicious that the little girl was digging oil from him.
So I arranged for a friend to act as trustee, and went to the store when I was away. He purposely didn't pay the lowest price and paid the bills.
When the little girl quoted, she was completely honest and quoted as it was received.
The owner also felt very relieved.
However, what's interesting is that once the boss lady and her friend went shopping, she was hit by the little girl. The little girl had a good memory and exclaimed:
"Huh? Isn't this our customer?"
The owner spoke for a while, ah, after all this time, the little girl blushed, as if she also realized something.
Within two days, the little girl found an excuse to leave.
When I talk about this, I say that my friend does not need, and the price is not big, how much oil can I use?
What's more, if the suspect doesn't use it, it doesn't matter whether the person is working, it really breaks the trust of both parties.
Not needed.....
In fact, this is a trivial matter, if it is a big problem, testing human nature is very dangerous.
I watched an American show before, a girl who was bored and colluded with a TV show to test her boyfriend.
The show team sends a beautiful woman to try her best to seduce her boyfriend, but in the end she resists the temptation.
The girlfriend passed the test, and the girl, overjoyed, called her and told her that she was testing herself.
Who knows, the girlfriend is furious and immediately breaks up on the phone.
The girl could not accept this fact and immediately burst into tears on TV.
You see, this is confusion, and you can't find yourself happy.
When you know that human nature cannot easily be tested, because not only because, human nature often cannot withstand tests, and those who can endure it generally cannot tolerate this kind of test.
Finsen is a renowned Danish medical scientist and Nobel Prize winner.
In his final years, Finsen wanted to find a replacement.
Many young talents in the medical field came here, and Finsen finally chose a young doctor named Harry.
Finsen's assistant looked at Harry's material and was a little worried, then said:
"Sir, Harry's family is not in good shape, so he might value income more. And here, we're not only boring, but the income isn't high either. What if Harry meets a better family and runs away?"
When his assistant said that, Finsen was also a little worried, so he asked: "What do you think?"
The assistant said, "Or, I'll find a friend and hire Harry under the pretext of a high salary, to see if he'll be impressed. If he agrees, he doesn't deserve to be your student."
However, Finsen said:
"I cannot do this, because I cannot stand on high moral ground and ignore others, nor will I test humanity.
Harry was born in a slum, how could he not have a desire for money?
We forced him to create a dilemma between reality and dream. He came here to study medicine, not to become a saint ... "
Finally Harry became a student of Finsen. Several years later, Harry also became a very influential Danish medical scientist.
When Finson died, the assistant discussed it with Harry, and Harry said tearfully:
"If I were tested like this back then, I would definitely fail.
Because my mother was sick at that time and my younger siblings also have to go to school, they really need money, if I have a higher income I will definitely choose.
However, if that was the case, there might not be any achievements at this time ... "
You see, Finsen is a smart person, he knows that rather than testing human nature, it is better to avoid the weaknesses of human nature and focus on creating common interests.
Because not everything has to be a decision, often, we just need to put humanity aside.