Cinderella

That was a piece of song lyrics, sung by the Radja music band.

Yes, as we all know, the love story of Cinderella is a story created by Hans Christian Andersen. Tells how a woman's dream is, who wants to get a partner who is a king, or a nobleman. Well, this is indeed expected by many people. That's why in soap operas, there are so many people who, for example, the woman is ordinary, her boyfriend is in conflict.

They say Cinderella's shoes are more expensive than an apartment.

Okay, I will immediately start today's discussion, which is about "The Story of Cinderella and the Moral Message of the Story".

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Stemian friends, have you ever heard the love story of Cinderella?

A story that only exists in fairy tales, where a handsome prince falls in love, and marries a simple girl. In the real world, the love story of Cinderella has happened, in several parts of the world. Let's call it the marriage of William Charles from England, with Kate Middleton. It seems that the love story of Cinderella will soon be repeated, just wait for the date, let's just pray, hopefully later the marriage will be like Galih and Ratna. Indeed, from the past, events like this have been a dream, from girls.

Okay. Cinderella's wedding, nowadays there is Cinderella's wedding, or Beauty and The Beast's wedding. This is about love, right? Before that, I want to ask those here, where does love come from? In my opinion, love comes from the Creator, meaning love is sacred.

If love is sacred, why should we look at different classes, different social status, economy, education, wealth, why? Because there is ego. Whose ego created it? Yes, humans themselves. Well, that's why I like it, for example, marriage does not look at class, social status, just like the love story of Cinderella.

In the past, Prince Charles' father, and Lady Diana, were also from a noble family, but Lady Diana was a kindergarten teacher at that time. William's son, and Kate, and also Sri Sultan's daughter, and also Mr. Jokowi's son, were also in the spotlight, those were real-life stories.

Love should not look at social status, in my opinion, something great. Because of this feeling of love that is above. That's why we gather here, in Steemit. That's why there is a philosopher from Greece who said, if translated like this,

"Love is something great, something that conquers everything, status, social, wealth status, nothing compared to love".

For me, because I am the type of person who does not drool over wealth and power. The power of the Cinderella love story is that it can change the tongue of Indonesian people to be westernized. The proof is the letter C in Cinderella, read with the letter S, not read with Cinderella, but Sinderella.

Then why Cijantung, not read with Sijantung. Because Cinderella is, a language from a foreign language, that is because it can change the tongue of Indonesian people, to be westernized. For me, the power of the love story, from the Cinderella story, is not only in terms of the power of love, but from glass.

In the past, and now are different. The strength of glass used to be stronger, the proof is that glass can be made into shoes. While glass now is not strong, the proof is there is a writing,

"Watch out for glass!"

Afraid of crashing, the glass will break. But it turns out, glass now is bigger, than the size in the past. For example, Kacamatan Muara Batu. Well, as a knight, my parents gave me the freedom to marry someone from any caste. For example, if a knight marries a musician, he can give birth to a knight who plays guitar, so it's better to marry someone from a different caste than someone who likes to lie. Here's a quote from me, hopefully it's useful:

"Cinderella means, love willingly, not love for a crazy account. Love must be sincere, not for the sake of money, love must be sincere, not for the sake of the contents of the safe, love must be halal, not brutal like a robber."

Everyone has hopes, and desires, and also has an idea of ​​how their marriage will be. Now is not the time to differentiate caste, wealth, and orientation. But many now are oriented towards material things. I have a principle, I apologize. I am not showing off, I am not influencing anyone. For me, a nobleman wants to marry someone of a lower caste, someone whose wealth is far below his, it doesn't matter to me, as long as he still has the same beliefs as me.

Because the principle is like this, a soulmate will not go anywhere, but the problem is if we don't go anywhere, we won't get a soulmate either. That's why we have to look for it with effort, the principle is that a soulmate will not be exchanged.

But the problem is that it can be stolen, but I have a principle, what is important is not her wealth, not her wealth. But she is good at cooking, and a pious woman, and a good mother for my children in the future.

But actually personally, I am not, or I don't really choose, or limit. But what is clear is, I don't want someone to marry me, or whoever, because of who I am. And I also hope that the person we marry is the person we want, but I hope, he is the one who wants me, the one I marry, that's it. I want to get married later, actually, I won't order an invitation, I won't invite guests. I hope they know and come, that's all.

May 24th, that was the most historic day in my life, don't ask why, because I won't tell it here🙊

Because I think like this, want a love story like Cinderella, or Beauty and The Beast, or whatever. All the stories before, the ending is always, the story is already known. There is a Latin proverb, I translate it, "Humans, determine their own stories. I will not be a Cinderella story, will not be a Beauty and The Beast story, I will write the story, whether good or bad for us.

If the concept of marriage is preoccupied with luxury, then that is the beginning of the seeds of conflict. Love is not a noun, but a word of the heart, and maybe, love is blind or deaf, but it is always honest, aka not a lie. Because if at the beginning, there is a lie, in the next stage, it will be sacrificed for those who live it. Do not love because of wealth, but love because you are willing, and need each other. But there is one thing to think about, yes, in my opinion, marrying the one we love, is beautiful, but much more beautiful, if we can make the person we love legal.

Okay, because at the beginning I opened this post with song lyrics, then I also close this post with a song:

"*How do I do it oh my love

I want to meet you

How how

Should I shed tears on my cheeks

Should I pour out everything in my heart

Oh... Should I hug you

And never let you go again

So that there is no more anxiety in my heart*"

With the end of the song, my discussion today also ends, thank you for those of you who have read, I hope there are benefits to be gained, see you again in the next post.

Greetings always compact.

By @midiagam