Self-imposed Boundaries

in hive-161155 •  5 days ago  (edited)

Very often "self-imposed boundaries" is seen in a negative light. But boundaries are necessary. Self-control is necessary. What I will do and what I won't do. Self restraint.

Life is dynamic and boundaries can become too restrictive according to time, place and circumstances. For that reason I need to reevaluate them from time to time. I may have "outgrown" the limits, like outgrowing clothing that has become too small.

Limits that may have been useful can become detrimental. Too restrictive. "Pick it up it's a rope." But then, "Put it down it's a snake."

It is a matter of adjusting boundaries so they do what they need to do. Provide safety from over reaching without restricting growth.

Boundaries are like anything else, a double-edged sword.

Over and above the extremes of too lax boundaries and too tight boundaries there is the insight given by Napoleon.

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Without imposing certain boundaries, you might become too exposed,and some people might violate your privacy

Yes. That's definitely a consideration. I'm pretty much in total amazement just about all the time maneuvering through life. Takes my breath away really... Best wishes.

Such simple, yet profound wisdom.

Yes. Thank you. But if I am so smart, how come I am not rich? lol

Sadly, a lot of dumb people are. 😂