The Greatness of taking the place of the other.

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At some point in our lives we must learn to take the place of the other. It must be normal, we are human, and we may be subject to similar life experiences, although sometimes everything is influenced by the way we direct our lives.

So in every situation in life, composure, compassion and understanding are required. We are so different from each other in our taste, habits, and education we see everything differently, but our judgment is different.

Our understanding of the truth and our ideas about behavior generally disagree. No two people whose experiences are exactly the same in every detail. What is a test for one is not a test for another. Duties that seem easy for one make it very difficult for the other and confuse them.

It is part of human nature because it is so unstable, so limited, and prone to misunderstanding that each of us must be careful when evaluating the other. We don't know how our actions will affect other people's experiences.

Everything we do or say may not matter much to us; But if our eyes were opened, we would see that this has very important consequences, influencing the direction of good or evil.

Many people have had so few difficulties in life, their hearts have experienced so little real pain, they have so little sympathy for the misfortune and pain of others that they cannot appreciate the work of a truly burdened worker.

There are so few people capable of appreciating their responsibility, almost as a child cannot understand the work and efforts of his father loaded with worries. The child may be surprised by the parent's fear and confusion, that all this seems unnecessary. But when time passes and the children stop being so and gain experience, when they themselves have to take responsibility for life, then they will remember their father's life and understand what was once so incomprehensible. It is as it is said that you will gain knowledge through bitter experience.

The work of many responsible people is incomprehensible to others. That person's efforts are not evaluated as they should be until death brings him to his grave. So when others take the burden of the one who passed away, they encounter the same difficulties they faced, and only now are they able to understand what kind of test their faith and courage were subjected to. In those moments, the errors that they condemned so severely are often forgotten. Experience teaches them to empathize with others.

It is always important that we do not forget that God allows people to hold responsible positions, and we must learn to understand the place of the neighbor, to understand what happens to him, and we can coexist better. Furthermore, it is important that we must be careful not to judge, since the judgment belongs to God.