Luck, I don't believe you can force it. What you can do is make the best of what is disappointing and then, at the end of the day, be satisfied with what you have achieved.
I am not one to swoon at the sight of a sunrise or sunset and no, I am not one to drown in the eyes of someone attractive. I have written before that I do not worship people, I am not or have never been a fan of a pop musician or VIP, I do not fall for celebrities and do not take the word of 'important' people and science, doctors, specialists are not sacred to me. I was not brought up that way and I suspect that even if I had been, I would still have doubts, and ask questions. I have always been like that. I never took anything for granted without answering the question of why. I spent hours, days, weeks, months and sometimes even years looking for answers. Now I know that there is not always an answer and sleepless nights asking "why" are now a thing of the past. I have resigned myself to the fact that there is no answer to every question, but that doesn't mean that I don't wonder, explore and wallow in ignorance and thus attain bliss, simply because the poor in spirit (are they the ignorant, the stupid?) are the ones who are blissful.
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