Every mother takes it upon herself to complete the schoolwork and daily tasks that her children must do, but sometimes the result is disappointing to the mother, as the child’s level was not sufficiently satisfactory to the mother.
A child's ability to comprehend varies from one child to another. Concentration and speed of comprehension are not as systematic as the mother sees.
Therefore, both parents must participate in solving this problem intelligently, deal with the child normally, and not treat him as different from all his siblings or colleagues.
How can I improve my son's understanding and academic abilities?
This question is on the mind of many mothers, and we find some of them dealing with great nervousness, some of them reprimanding the child and making him feel that he is less than his classmates, and some of them comparing his performance with his classmates in the same year. All of these are wrong behaviors that the parents must control their behavior and method. In dealing with the child before blaming him and always putting him in the category of a lazy child.
Give the child confidence
Giving the child self-confidence is the first step to success. Every mother must rid her child of feelings of guilt and frustration about his academic level and give him the necessary confidence. This will not result in reprimanding and directing constant blame to the child, but rather by encouraging him and talking to him about himself, his skills and abilities, and that he is never less than everyone else. His brothers and friends absorbed his lessons
A child's understanding is related to his skill!
Every child has a skill that distinguishes him, so the child must be monitored and realize the skills in which he excels and work to build and develop them and constantly encourage him and bring the means that increase his talent. There is absolutely no objection to the child participating in centers for training and developing children’s skills, as his success in the talent he loves and encouraging it gives him A feeling of success and superiority, followed by self-confidence and the ability to deal with others without fear of failure.
Method of education and delivery of information
As we mentioned, children’s abilities differ from each other, so the optimal method must be followed to deliver information to the child through various educational means. For example: if the child loves tablets and computers, you can bring educational CDs and training programs that he can watch through the computer, and if he prefers pictures and drawings You can bring the means that support the visual information and so on...
Child's teacher
The teacher has a very important role. Parents can talk to the teacher whom the child loves, identify the child’s weaknesses, and tell him everything the child is struggling with in order to deal with him in the best way. The teacher has a great influence on the child.
Encouragement and reward
When a child performs his duties or gets high grades, he must be encouraged, praised, and embraced. Many parents make a big mistake, which is showing the child that his success is normal. Rather, he must be encouraged, praised, and given a reward that he likes and prefers in order to raise his morale.
Organizing the child's time
All children love to have fun and play, so parents must help the child and teach him how to organize his time so that he gets enough time to study and at the same time get rest and entertainment, as the child is not able to organize his time.
And finally. Parents must participate together in guiding and learning the child so that he improves his mental and psychological abilities and also brings him to safety. The child’s excellence is not his task alone, but it is the family’s task as well.
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