Assalamu Alaikum, how are you, my friends? A few days ago I went to a training of Dr. Almasur Rahman sir. He is a very wonderful person. Dr. Almasur Rahman was born in Dhaka, in 1961. Graduated from Dhaka University and Ph.D. from USA. He is a national chess player and international chess judge. He has popularized the one-day meditation course 'Proactive Meditation' in Bangladesh to properly utilize the mental state and its endless energy. Apart from regular motivational classes for students as an invited speaker in various universities, he regularly writes articles on psychological topics in daily newspapers and magazines. His books 'How to control stress and anger' and 'Chinta Dhara' have gained a wide readership. He is the father of two children and his wife is a housewife. He is currently working as a residential campus instructor at BRAC University Just listening to him seems to calm the mind and cool the mood. Sir's training was mainly about 'How to control stress and anger'. I learned a lot from his training. Because my anger is always high.
Sir spoke a lot, I am presenting some brief words from him: We get very angry, abuse, even vandalize. But why? I am a human, I am the way I am, so it is foolish to think that others will be like me, think like me. Because God made each person differently. Everyone has a different way of thinking and speaking because everyone is different.
If I wake up one morning and see everyone talking like me, walking like me, wearing clothes like me, thinking like me, then I will think to myself, Hey, are they all crazy, why are they all behaving like me? Then we will get annoyed with ourselves. We get very angry over a small matter, we don't want to listen to the other side, it destroys the intimacy between us, and breaks the sweet relationship between husband and wife.
Sir said that sir's wife does not eat breakfast in the morning, because she has been used to it since childhood. After marrying sir, when sir talked about breakfast, his wife said what kind of breakfast I will cook at noon. Since then Sir has also become accustomed to it. Two people grew up in different places, their education is different, culture is different, and speech style is different, what is the use of getting angry about these things? Instead, if we adopt, the relationship will be beautiful.
It is no use if we sit angrily with ego about everything around us, not everyone will be like us, it is a very natural thing because everyone is different, and everyone has a different way of thinking. So this is it today. If there is a chance, I will write again one day, inshallah. Sir said more beautifully, I could not write so neatly. So I hope you will look at the small mistakes and random words with forgiveness.
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Thank you so much
Lailatul Ferdawsi Aporna(@lailatulferdawsi)
From Bangladesh