Contest: "How To Anticipate Bullying in Educational Environment"

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Bullying is what I see as shameful act and is very common in this our present age. Bullying is not only done physically but emotionally as well.

Bullying is the act of applying force on someone, using hurtful and demeaning words, intimidating a person, making someone to go against his or her wish, controlling someone etc. These things brings about physical, social and mental harm to the person being bullied.

Bullying did not just start from school, but from families which is home. Have seen a family where the father do tell the children that so they see the family of "Mr A" they don't take nonsense if anyone bully one of them they all stand and bully that person why is my own different. From the mind that child has it and he or she will now take that to school and grow with that.

Bullying is not just in beating up someone, pushing, kicking, hitting, punching but making abusive and shameful words or comments on someone and that alone can make that person sad.

Bullying have effects

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Bullying have so many effects let me just mention few which are:-

1.They make that child feel depression and anxiety. when a child is been depressed it takes the help of God to bring such child out from that state. Depression eat up a child and he or she will look older then their real age.

2.Bullying in Educational Environment add mood of sadness and isolation to a child which is not good because that child can not excel fast while studying his or her books. He or she will be thinking of that insendent that happens before then.

3.Bullying in Educational Environment causes a child to have changes in eating and sleeping structure. When a child is not eating or sleeping well it will affect his or her health, wellbeing and learning performance in academy.

4.Loss of interest in the activities they enjoy doing before.

I remember my niece, I went to pick her from school one day and I noticed something different in her mood and she was some how looking depressed. After she greeted me and I answered, I didn't say a word to her again while inside the car. We both got home I was still watching her mood and reaction has changed. I now ask her, What is the challenge with you, your face is not bright she now said Uncle "is nothing oh... Is just one new girl that came to our school and she is in my class and she is just opening her mouth to say everyone in the class don't know anything and she even bully one of my class mate and remove blood and that is what am just thinking about in my mind all this while" I reply her did any of your class mate report to the school management? "She said yes and I reply back don't worry, your school management and the parents will handle that so eat your food and I noticed her mood was full with happiness on her face.

There are different ways to prevent bullying

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Bullying is a spirit and every spirit as a place to go when one say I don't want to be a bully or bullying others.

1.Be your child best friend in that case, he or she can not keep any secret from you.

2.Bullying is a plan work, don't plan the evil you will do that person instead talk to an adult (school teacher) you trust, let him know what has happening.

3.School should practice possible events that will teach teach and children how to ignore a bully.

4.Educational Environment should make something new, aggressively self assured activities relating for coping with bullying.

5.Teachers should stop compering one child with the others because that is where bullying comes in to play too. Like look at John, he as the best brain but you all, I don't know what type of brain you have. That's how some will start planning to bully John after school hours and that will create more bullying mindset in our Educational Environment.

If you are not or once a bully, your child can never or want to be a bully because we produce after our kind and parents, don't take laws into your hand. Train up a child in the way he or she will go and when he or she is old, he or she will never depart from that way.

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In conclusion: Bullying is a spirit, once you notice your child is bullying other children in school, you need to take that child for a special treat. He or she need a break.

Thank you for reading my post.

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