LOVE: AN ACTION WHICH SHOULD BE RECIPROCATED.

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Before i start expounding on my topic,I see it as necessity to let you know that there are several types of love but right now I'll be giving you a list of just seven (7) major types of love,and few of them is what I'll be mostly referring to in this write-up. The Seven(7) major types of love are;

• 1). AGAPE
  This is the type of love that is selfless,unconditional etc
• 2). PHILIA
  This is a type of love without romantic attraction that occurs between friends and family.
  It is commonly referred to as BROTHERLY LOVE
• 3). PRAGMA
  This is a unique bonded type of love that matures over many years. Commitment and dedication are required to reach particular type of love.
• 4). STORGE
  Also known as familiar love that is naturally rooted in parents and children,and even best friends.
• 5). PHILAUTIA
  Also known as SELF LOVE, it's a healthy form of love where you recognize your self-worth and don't ignore your personal needs.
• 6). LUDUS
  This is a child-like and flirtatious type of love found at the beginning of relationships e.g Beginning of dating,honeymoon etc
• 7). EROS
  This is a passionate type of love that is displayed through physical affection.

In this write-up,I'm going to be giving more attention to the LUDUS,EROS and the PRAGMA types of love

LOVE!!!❤
This particular subject has many definitions on earth today.
This subject called love has the capacity to make one so full of joy and in so much glow and also make one sad,depressed,etc which shouldn't be so.

One major thing i believe concerning this subject called LOVE is that LOVE SHOULD BE RECIPROCATED

Many people today have fallen into the trap or bondage of unreciprocated love where someone virtually gives everything just to make a relationship work while the other party isn't even interested in the relationship talk more of putting in effort to make it work,this of course leads to sadness and possible depression on the side of the one who is interested in the relationship.

Yes,it's true that sometimes we love people so much to want to put them in our lives either as acquaintances,as friends or even something more than friends,but as life may have it,not all of those people see it the way we do.
Some of them get to the point of even showing clear evidences that they aren't interested.

I must confess,this really hurts 💔,but i guess one of the attributes of maturity is the ability to soar through this moments and move on with being YOU,knowing that those people have their own lives to live and are entitled to their own choices.

No matter who you are,no matter how high or how low you are in the society,no matter your self-esteem,i want to let you know that YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED.
Yes it's true,do not let anyone tell you anything that contradicts this fact.

Never force someone to love you,if they don't accept to reciprocate your love or your love advances,move on with your life,YOU DESERVE BETTER

LOVE IS AN ACTION WHICH SHOULD BE RECIPROCATED,IN THE ABSENCE OF RECIPROCATION,IT BECOMES ABUSE,FRUSTRATION,ETC

Also know that for the fact that one refused to reciprocate your love shouldn't be a basis for making them your enemy,NO,this isn't right.
You should be kind to them,love them (Agape: The Unconditional Love),care for them but know that you should let them have their space.

THANK YOU FOR READING,I PRAY YOU FIND ANSWERS TO SOME OF YOUR QUESTIONS IN THIS WRITE-UP.