"My Dream Spouse - top 4 qualities I would love you to have"|| My Entry to @STEEMALIVE Contest

in hive-167622 •  4 years ago  (edited)

Hello, beautiful people of the @SteemAlive community, I am glad to be among those participating in this interesting contest, and for anyone who is willing to participate, here is the link.

Indeed love is a beautiful thing when you are with the right one and nothing can make one happy when he or she finds the qualities she dreams about in their spouse's life.

So, I am not married and as such, there are outstanding qualities I would love my spouse to have and they are A GODLY MAN, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, A GOOD LISTENER, HUMBLE

Although marriage has been adulterated by some people who think or feel marriage is bad and full of problems, although marriage isn't a bed of roses because it is an institution that no man has ever graduated from. Finding the right person makes marriage beautiful and full of life, makes one ready to face any challenges as long as they are together.

Divorce is a thought that will never come to such a couple's life when their partners have good qualities that can be boasted about. I believe in true love and as such, I am dreaming of a fulfilled and happy life not just as a single but as a married woman. It matters to me more than anything because marriage is a lifetime university.

4 qualities you would appreciate in a potential life partner


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A GODLY MAN
Being a believer and one who believes in Heaven and Hell as well as fulfilling purposes in marriage, marrying a believer or godly man is paramount. A man who together we will walk the Christian race, and walk towards fulfilling God's purposes in our lives and marriage, A man who I will pray together, study the word together, and learn together. A man who will also lead me and become my priest. A man who will show his children a good example and show them the true way which is Christ.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
I guess many people have mistaken love for money b but money for any reason can't and won't be compared to love because when your spouses love you, you are whole. He or she might not be perfect which we are not but the fact that you know your spouse loves you which means he won't do anything to hurt you gladdens your heart every day and keeps you smiling and moving.

That is why I chose Love first. I know money answereth problems but I believe when there is love, and where there is love money can never be a problem. When there s love, it will be easy to get anything we want as a family. He will always be ready to help me whenever he sees that I have too much of a workload without thinking that I must be the one always doing the whole work.

When there is love, understanding comes in and it is easy to relate and understand ourselves without hurting the other person. I won't be insecure and become a policewoman, policing him wherever he or she went to.

A GOOD LISTENER AND ONE WHO TELLS ME EVERYTHING
I am a good listener and as such, I love those who are able to listen attentively to people no matter the rubbish or gibberish the other person is trying to say. Even if most times, the rubbish has no meaning but giving the person a listening ear to what he or she has to say gives the person the confidence to want to talk.

My spouse must be a good listener, ready to listen to my advice about a business even though it is not the best, and also, he must be ready to tell me everything from the beginning to the end about how his day went, the challenges and the good ones.

HUMBLE
I detest proud and pompous people, I detest people who look down on people as nothing and always want to make people feel inferior. I detest people who make people think low about themselves and as such, I dream of a man who is humble no matter the money he has, no matter the level of his academic qualification. One who is ready to see the good in everyone not just me but people around us. A man who is humble to the core and doesn't oppress people because of all that he has amassed in life.

Thank you all for visiting my contest entry post.

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