Steemit Engagement Challenge: Season-2, Week-4.
Today I will participate in Steemit Engagement Challenge Season-2 Week-4, and today I will Post in the Challenge " The Worst day and the best day of your life - A true life story!" organized by @steemalive. I will tell you about the best day and the worst day of my life through this competition. I have been able to write about such a subject through this competition, so I really like it so thank you for organizing this competition.
The Worst Day in My Life
Worldwide when Covid-19 launched in March 2019. In our country even then the lockdown did not start in a very serious way. And so I quit my job on March 20th and next April 1st I will join a new job, that's what the company said. But on the 1st of April a very terrible situation started in our country. The first lockdown started and I could no longer join the company.
And so I have to go through a very difficult situation. I think that day was very bad for me and not only that day but the next days of that day have been very difficult for me. My family and I lived in Dhaka, the capital of Bangladesh. And here we lived in a rented house, we also have the cost of food. And I didn't have any money to save on rent and food.
So I was very worried and depressed. I still remember those days when I was in a lot of trouble, I became very mentally ill. I think it was the worst time of my life. And so I will probably never forget that day in my life.
But another happy thing is that at that time I was living in the same house with my brother. We were supposed to share the cost of rent and food for both of us, that is, we would halve the cost of rent and food in our house. My brother will give and I will give. But I couldn't afford not to have my job. So my brother bore all the expenses of my house food and house rent. Thus for eight long months she rented me and my family's house and paid for meals.
So I never want to forget his deeds in life. I want to remember him all the time. And then he stood by me, helped me, and he paid for the house. So I am very grateful to him and would like to thank him very much.
One thing I learned from this incident was this: I didn't have any money at the time. Because such a day that may come to me is something I never even thought about in my life. This is how the lockdown will start, I will not be able to do any work and if I cannot work, I will not have any income. And if I can't earn, I will be in financial crisis. And so since that incident I have tried to be much more aware than now and have learned a lesson that there could be a problem at any time that I may not be thinking about.
So we have to make savings, we have to save some money. If I ever get into trouble, I can't work, I have to put up with difficult situations and I don't have any income, then I have to save money so that I can continue those days. Then we don't have to suffer too much. Because I have money and if I have money, I can use it to pay for my house rent, food, and other household expenses. So I must save money for any danger. That was my learning
The Best Day in My Life
I currently have a son, I love him a lot. In fact, the joy of being a father cannot be understood before becoming a father, and these feelings cannot be expressed to anyone. When my son is happy, it feels like a peace of mind. And when he cries or is in pain or sick about something, I have no peace in my mind even if I get everything in the world.
I say these things because I have had the happiest time of my life ever since my son was born on this earth. In fact, I have many more happy days. But I personally thought that the day my son was born was as happy as it was and I was never. The day I heard that my son had a child. It was as if a different kind of joy was working in my mind that day.
Although I was in Dhaka city due to my busy schedule. But my child was born in my village home. Because my wife used to live in the village house then. This is my son was born on May 11, 2017, at 11 pm on May 11, 2017. I was at home that day and eating rice. And my wife was in the hospital that day to have a baby, I was very worried. Because the doctor told her the date, maybe the baby could be born on May 3, 2017. But from the 3rd I was very worried and everyone in our family thought that the 3rd gave the doctors a date.
On May 11, my wife was taken to the hospital by her brother and I was at my home at the time. Then at 11 o'clock at night a call came to me. My mother called me or my sister and told me that the boy had become a babu. I was so happy that I can't really express it in words and I can't explain to you any of the examples or words that make me happy. However, I can only say that those who became the first father in life will understand this joy.
And I still remember that day. I was eating rice and when I heard this news, I could not eat my rice for happiness. It took me a long time to eat rice that day. Because I was so happy that I could not eat rice, I was eating rice slowly. And I am very happy to share this happy moment with you. And now my son is five years old. It's too big. In fact, no matter how old a child is, he stays with his parents for the rest of his life.
She's still that small to me, though she can talk nicely now. He now goes to the educational institution, I admitted him. But I still remember that day and I still have some images of his childhood. The ones that I see and smile at in my mind are how big that little boy is now. And I find a lot of joy. I can only think of my son if I ever feel alone. Then all the troubles are gone. And in my mind a different kind of joy comes, love comes and I am very happy in my mind. In fact, my happiness at the moment is probably around my son, my joy when the boy is happy and my pain when he is in trouble.
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@kawsar
Greetings my friend. @kawsar.
What covid19 did to poeple is very terrible. Yours is that you lost your Job and, you where passing through difficult situations with your family. In the other hand, your brother became a source of help for you for good 8 months which you will never forget.
Many lost their life's which was the most important thing
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I still feel bad when I think of that life of mine. Thank you so much for your comment.
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Don't feel bad again my brother. Instead always rejoice that God has changed your stories to be good. How about your family today? Hope you all are in God health?
My regards to your family.
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Thank you so much for inviting me friend. Indeed Covid-19 bring a lot of soffuring to the world. Sorry for everything that you passed through during Covid-19 period.
I am also happy that you fine happiness. Congratulations for the birth of your son babu. Best of luck.
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The joy of fatherhood is beyond compare. Truly, one cannot express in full until he or she becomes one. Thank God you're now a father.
As for your worst day, covid19 took away joy from this world then. Only God knows how I and my family managed to survive then. But, my greatest thanks goes to your brother for his act of kindness toward you and your family.
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Dear brother, it's my duty and am ready to carry out my work successfully. Thanks for appreciating my little work
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Interesting story mate, the covid caused a lot of inconvenience, at least you were deed by some one, the lockdown meet me broke, and the first 4days of the lockdown, i had no food as i drank only water
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I'm glad you liked the story. Thank you so much for the comments
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You are welcome
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Hello friend, greetings from Venezuela.
The covid brought many difficulties in many countries of the world. But the good thing is that your brother supported you at all times.
Congratulations on being a father.
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Thank you so much for your valuable comments
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Covid changed so many lives and will still. I am so glad that you got out of the dark hole and that you are now mentally better.
The joy of parenthood! It is indeed very special and you must enjoy every moment with your son.
Thanks for sharing!
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Covid you are right you have changed the lives of many of us and warned many to be careful because I never thought it would happen.
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Best of all.. it can happen again.
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What am interactive story starting from you worse day. Good to know that you have a brother who could absorb all that expenses without having you to go down the drains first.
For your happiest day, the joy of fatherhood is always supreme. It is unquantifiable.
Thanks for sharing with us.
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My brother helped me then and I will never forget that day
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We feel happy when such gestures are given. We pray for more acts of kindness from both parties.
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Hello dear brother @kawsar,
I'm so glad to hear that you are a dad and your born son made your day to be the best day as he was born in May 11, 2017. Indeed children are blessings from God. This is why we should always rejoice and be happy when ever God blesses us with a child.
I'm so sorry to hear about what COVID-19 brought upon your life which made you to quit your job and was unable to fine another job due to the pandemic disease. I can imagine the pains and stress you went through during that period
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I was so happy the day my son was born, I feel so good just thinking about him. Thanks for your comment
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Children are God's gift to mankind and it is indeed a joyful moment when you get one. I am so happy for you.
The pandemic caused lot of pain to many as we got to see high rate of hardship and numerous losses of jobs. It was indeed a sad and bad time for all. But thank God it's all over now. Greetings!
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You are right, the child is a great blessing of Allah. Thank you for the valuable comment
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You are most welcome.
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Wow el COVID hizo estragos en todas partes, dejo muchas personas sin empleo y has sin familia, lamento mucho lo de tu trabajo pero vendrán tiempos mejores. La felicidad de tener un hijo es indescriptible, me alegra mucho que tengas esa bendición. Saludos amigo🤗
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A very difficult time I went through is now over. Thanks for your comment
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You're very lucky to have such a thoughtful and caring brother. He really helped you and your family during those difficult times.
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In fact, you are right, my brother supported me a lot at that time
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He is indeed a gift of a brother
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I enjoyed reading your post my dear friend.The joy of having your first fruit(baby) is unquantifiable.Your wify delivered the baby and they broke the news to you.I understand that state of happiness and excitement.
The covid-19 pandemic affected and thwarted your plans of moving to a new job and so it was difficult for you , financially.
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In fact, it was a very difficult time for me that I will probably never forget in my life. Thank you for your comment.
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Sorry about those challenges that you passed through during the lockdown.Truth is that any condition that didn't kill us is not stronger than us.We are stronger than lockdown through the grace and help of Allah.
Regards!!
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Here your brother have got long as caring bloodline to figured out that , you not a kind of trickished type . Who want another person to spent for you while you get to savings . Locked down was a true hell .
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My brother supported me a lot. Thank you very much for your valuable comments
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Covid 19 really caused havoc in the world. I remember here in Ghana we only watched it on television and how it was invading other countries and killing people, I never taught it will come to a time where it will come to Ghana and we will have to also be in lockdown.
We were on lockdown for almost a whole year or less, schools closed down in order to protect the citizens. We were almost asked to stop going to the mosque to pray. It came to a time where I taught it could wipe the entire world away.
I’ve read so many entries of user and this is actually the first post that I have come across of a man saying that the birth of his child is the best day. When I read that like I said it myself; " it’s about time” .😂. I smiled you know .
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You are right, one can onl the joy of being a father when he becomes a father.
If i may ask, were you able to finish the rice that same day?
I know you love your family so much.
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